solution for eating? I can not always eat forced food. I like desired food at least once in a week. Wife never allow me to speak on food. She shout madly so I eat without any taste, just like animals. She know taste of herself, children, relatives, guest, friend, neighbourer and ask all but she is silent towards husband. She offer special food to all devi devta, Marriage Ghori, Cow etc. I never force her to eat as per my taste. Whey ladies are so bad, mean, selfish, greedy, mad?
2007-03-20 21:11:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it lack of respect is that what you mean -- She does for others and not for you - What is holding you back from speaking up - No one has the right to control what you eat unless it is a Doctor's order - Cook your own food
2007-03-20 21:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first possibility is tht may be she is nt realisng tht u r not getting the kind of food u desire or the food up to ur tatse and choice?
she may be taking fr granted tht u wudn't mind hvng whtever she serves u and hence feels comfrtble gvng the food her way??
if she is being insensitive about ur food habits thn may be u can try to explain to her hw exactly u prefer ur cuisine and may be she will do it?
try ..?
and hope thr will be peace at ur dinner table....
good luck..
2007-03-21 04:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by ☆| raji |☆ says let's make life beautiful! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold hold hold on buddy.!seems u r a gr8 fan of food? tats good.Might b ur wife is bored up wid d same life u ppl r leading .So naturally its reflecting n ur food.Take her out 4 dinner mind it ,not a family get together plzzzzzz just u n she.hold her hand tell her what u like ,wat u want.Make her feel important.M sure it will work. 'pyar se tou pathar bhi bhigal jate hai'.Beat of luck.
2007-03-21 07:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate whatever she cooks. She would gradually start cooking for you too. Maybe you never said, "Yummy... the food's great." Maybe be you never thanked her for the efforts she put in for the family.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-22 02:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, table manners should be observed - for the sake of the other diners!
2007-03-21 04:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wife is 'punishing' you? why? figure out why and enjoy good eats. peace
2007-03-21 04:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies are son of *****. Many ladies are bad from bed to bed. They never listen anything anytime. They are all time rondu. Is there any lady who is ready to cook as per need / taste of husband? I can pay 10000/- if any lady is ready to cook once in a week as per taste. Ladies force men to learn and earn but refuse to learn the taste of husband. Ladies want man pasand at every time but refuse to return. Ladies shout on tailor if suit is not as per taste and they never allow husband to express if food is not good. Giving unwanted is bad / sin / punishable. I have told 100 TIMES to my wife to give me food WITHOUT ONION. She can take onion. She is giving me ALL VEGETABLES etc. with onion by using grinder-mixer. This is CHEATING on corrupt ladies. Many wrote: use table manner, but is there any manner for ladies. All want as per taste. Ladies never accept against taste. I can give 10000/- to any lady who is ready to eat anything / against wish. Ladies say wrong: I eat all. In fact they eat as per taste / selected. My wife never take meat. I never ask her to take meat. She should kill me if I offer meat to her. Should I kill / love her if she give onion. Why ladies are so mean? Why ladies refuse to take normal care of husband? I want Khari dal she give me ghuli dal. I can cook but she force me to eat cooked by her. It is ghor neechta. I can appoint cook but she is ready to kill both-me and cook. She is rakshah, dictator, fool, bad spot on name of ladies. I requested wife of my brother in law to give me Green Chholiya but she refused. She directed me to my her. She never directred my wife, her nanad to give me desired. All ask me to adjust. Any one ready to tell lady to adjust / listen? Ladies are really bad, black name for ladies. Ladies should be hanged on next crossing for forcing husbands to eat against wish. If she is ill, she can tell. Man can buy as per need. I am ready to eat anything if she is ill but can be make good after recovery. I am bad if I force special in her illness but she is not ready to give me food / medicine if I am ill. I had Jukam, my friend told me to eat besan ka halwa for recovery of jukam. She refused to listen foolishness told by my friends.
2007-03-21 08:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her ur problem but please not on the dinner table................
2007-03-21 04:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Vns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋