2007-03-20 21:11:14 · 16 answers · asked by Clarkey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i hate it when people do that - it's so damned childish !!! i had a guy ignore me for 2 whole years, after we'd been friends for ages..... never did find out what i was supposed to have done, but i came to the conclusion that he can't have been a good friend to start with, or he's have wanted to sort the situation out. the only other thing that i can suggest is that u try talking to a mutual friend, see if she's told anyone else why she's upset with u. other than that, there's not much that u can do, other than wait for her to come to her senses, or cut your losses and find other friends to hang out with. good luck.x
2007-03-20 21:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is a problem with her - and you have asked to no avail. What I would therefore do under these circumstances - drop her a card explaining that you cannot for the life of you think what you have done to upset her (if anything) - dont forget to put that - because it may not be you. She may have underlying problems that she is not ready to talk about. Therefore, when she receives your card and reads what you say, she may then be able to make the first move (not that is a case of that) - but basically open up to you about......whatever.
On closing the notes you put on the card briefly say, when she is ready to talk you will be there. In the mean time you have to pick yourself up and continue to make friends with other people - keeping yourself busy. If of course she never replies then you have new friends and you have reached a new level of your life (which we all do).
I say write to her purely because a telephone call is over as soon as it is finished, whereas a card is something to hold onto I feel.
2007-03-20 21:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by deep in thought 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Txt her saying hiya hun, i really dont understand y ur not talking 2me i hate it that where not speaking, i cant apologise for summin or talk to u about it if i dont no what iv done? iwant to sort this out coz your ma best mate and mean alot but i cant make you speak so when your ready to talk to me im here. try this then just leave the ball in her court nwt much more you can do.xx
2007-03-21 00:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by deliciousde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on ..... if she cant give you at least the respect of telling you how you offended her , or at least writing it to you in a letter or email , so that you can either apologize , explain or defend yourself , is she really a best friend , was she , will she ever be ..... Treat others the way you wish to be treated :)
2007-03-20 21:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by tlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my 2 best friends got together and turned against me for no good reason and i grieved for about 6 months until i realised they wernt really friends at all! now im better off without these two and they have since fallen out and regretting what they did. too late! iv got better friends and iv moved on. good luck darling uwill sort this out or get over it and she will want u back one day.
2007-03-20 21:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her 4 a while,if she`s a true friend she`ll probably ask what` wrong if not u are better off without her.a true friend would sort out any differences surely.good luck either way.
2007-03-20 21:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by happy chappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a break, if you don't know and she won't tell you then just leave her to it and find yourself new mates. Life is too short to be worrying about it.
2007-03-21 03:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by treacle0511 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.. Wait a few days and ask her again
2007-03-20 22:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give her a little distance for awhile and see if that helps.
2007-03-20 21:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds, to me, like, - as PAINFUL, as it may BE, - you got to find a NEW best friend.
2007-03-20 21:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by Spike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋