I am her first love. For the very first time i hugged her she sort of spasmed 'thud-thud-thud' and suddenly kept very quiet. After a minute later she asked to go to the bathroom. What happened?
Is it what i think it is? If so i'd like to give an applause to me. She is very attracted to me btw. Nice sweet girl.
I'd like to improve myself. How do i get more of these effect(if it is what i think it is) from my spouse again? Does it occur on other women too? Thanks.
2007-03-20 20:49:01 · 12 answers · asked by kaiserchief 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
She had like very strong emotions just before we hugged. First time i held her hand. She was teary eyed from the emotion- her first time with a guy.
2007-03-20 20:57:42 · update #1
I have a "special friend" who I also work with and whenever I am around him I have these feelings and even if he just touches my hand or brushes past me I can tremble, etc. The frst time I was with him I orgasmed as soon as his body was against mine (before we had even had sex) so it probably has more to do with the feelings that she gets around you, rather that something specific that you are doing, I suppose if you just gently brushed past her or up her and teased her then it would have a similar effect.
Good luck :)
2007-03-20 21:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your girl what she felt? Why guess? You might be right thinking that she had an orgasm. It does happen. Very rarely, but it does. But what if you are wrong? You say she became very quiet, then she had to leave to go to the bathroom. It might mean that for some reason she wasn't OK, but was frightened or embarrassed to tell you. Even if she actually had an orgasm, it might have scared her. It might have been her first orgasm ever. She might have ejaculated and that could have freaked her out. She might be thinking that something is terribly wrong with her. Who knows? Nobody on Yahoo answers does, but your girl could make things clear to you. Talk to your girl. Seriously, that's the best improvement a lover can make: learning how to communicate.
2007-03-21 04:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by praha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
interesting way to put it.
you make her sound like "click me on dildo"
ahem
anyway
either her heart was beating damn fast.
or she almost had an orgasm or did have one.
either way.good for you, so yay for you
*pat,pat*
if you want to improve yourself, get comfortable with her.explore eachothers bodies.
touch her.
simple.
and dont ask her "hey can i touch you?"
no.
just do it slowly, and look into her eyes to see her reaction, if shes shy, keep going, but if she resists or is scared.stop and talk to her about how you feel about her.simple.
dont go overboard, but dont do nothing either.
as for other women, it depends on the situation.
yes it can happen from a hug at time, if we're in that type of mood.Otherwise its quite rare for a woman to, "vibrate" as you so eloquently described.
Hope this helped.
R A V E
2007-03-21 03:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never heard of a woman climaxing over a hug, but any thing is possible. Often when a relationship is new it is very easy to cause this effect, but you will have to work harder for them as time passes, so if you want to be a great lover, you had better learn to wait until she is done. This is something that you will have to master, good luck.
2007-03-21 04:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is what you think it is. I have felt the same way before and it wasn't a big O. Just a very overwhelming feeling of the newness of love/infatuation. Sorry to say it is not likely to be like that again.
2007-03-21 03:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Settle down cowboy, it had more to do with her state of arousal than anything you did. Absolutely, improve yourself but know that you don't hug a woman and she goes off. Chances are it will never happen again, if it does she is an exceptional woman.
2007-03-21 03:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by milittleguy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marrying an under aged girl is a punishment in Singapore.
2007-03-21 04:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Cakebread 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's that , wow bravo. I haven't heard of that one happening before lol. It may be all the excitement of having someone she loves and is very attracted to. When my boyfriend first kissed me (and it wasn't like it was my first) it made my heart pound so hard I was sure he could feel it.
2007-03-21 03:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is she your wife ? If yes please take care of her you can rarely find pure girls like this. If not Don't be so proud of yourself.Maybe she is shaking out of fear because she is getting a feeling of guilt and thinking of what her parents would do to her if they found out especially if you live in a conservative country.
2007-03-21 06:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by hansombynature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just hugged her??? clothes on and all that???? if you are married leave this poor girl alone you cad
2007-03-21 04:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋