I meet this girl a few months ago, and we totally hit it off as friends (at lest I think "friends"), right away. I was immediately drawn to her (I DON’T KNOW WHY!), and she to me. Throughout my life I've thought that some girls were pretty, beautiful, and some just firkin gorgeous (never having any sexually feelings towards them)!!!
But with her...I wanna smile every time she's near. I can't and I don't want to keep my heart from soaring high, when she smiles. Oh my, I can’t even look in her stunning gray blue eyes, without wanting to kiss her senseless! And does she have delicately pink kissable lips?! Oh yes she does! I always want to touch her, just to make sure she’s for real. This is sooo weird I'M STRAIGHT...or at lest I was. I’m soo effing confused…I want to cry!!! My fam would kill me if I was GAY! But I don’t care, anymore.
Anyway, when ever were are alone talking, after awhile for some reason she stops and we just can’t stop looking into each others eyes. She’ll continue to gaze into my eyes until I shyly look away. Then she’ll say, “Man, I LUV you” with such feeling. Then she jumps back into the conversation as if nothing happened. I catch her staring at me a lot, and she smiles. She’s constantly kissing my cheeks, stroking my hair, resting her head on my shoulder when were alone watching a movie, and sometimes holding and stroking my hand. Since we met we have hanged out more with each other than with anyone else.
I use to think I was straight…but now I’m in LOVE with another woman!!! I have never asked her if she was straight or gay…because she said she had a crush on a male actor. I don’t know how to tell if she likes me, she’s so unpredictable. Where both very attractive, so I don’t want to say anything if she’s does not share my feelings.
So I’m asking you, is she into me???
2007-03-20 19:54:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Simple........Yes she is into you, but will never admit with words. Actions will eventually prove that she is into you. What do you really want to hear?
2007-03-20 19:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation with one of my best friends. You should try to either bring it up in a conversation (not as in flat out asking 'do you love me?' but more of finding out what she would do if she was lesbian or something like that) or try to see if you could take the touches and kissing just a little bit further, not too mind you in case she doesn't like you like that, but just enough to kinda gauge her reaction. (ex: I kissed my bff's forehead during the previews to a movie at the theatre to see what her reaction would be. She kissed my forehead back, which was reassuring to me. The next day we had our first kiss.^^)
Don't worry about what your family would do if you were gay, if they really love you no matter what then they will accept you and how you are. It's your life and you need to make sure that you live it the way that makes you happy.
From what you've said, it seems to me that she must find you at least a little bit attractive if not more. And she could be (not saying she is) bi or curious (in reference to her having a crush on a male actor).
2007-03-21 11:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sabryna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe deeply for a minute or sixty first okay? Seems to me from your description, that the both of you are fairly well infatuated with each other. No worries though. If like a lot of people who have been nothing but attracted to the opposite sex and suddenly find themselves going ga-ga over a member of the same sex, well, you may have or just be Bi-sexual! Again, no worries though! As to the burning question: I'd say she may be wanting to perhaps take things slow before just jumping into the bedroom. Get to know each other better please. And don't forget the protection!
2007-03-20 20:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. What's the worst that could happen? She gets offended, stops talking to you. Yeah, ok, but what's the best that could happen? I think you know where I am going with this...
Don't let fear stop you from following your heart. Life is too short.
2007-03-20 20:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by its.getting.worse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe shes onto you.... because referring on ur text she doing all this thing to you like kissing ur cheek and stroking ur hand and such well thats a big possabillaty that shes on tu you........
and she might love you.......
treat her well make her your lover but if ur still thingking ur straight and you refuse to admit that ur gay or lesbian, this means that ur just trying to tear her love from you....
and referring to ur text that you cant stop sminling when shes at your side that means you lover her too......
just to tell you my big sister is a lebian and shes proud of it but at frist yes she has a little doubts about it but when you have feeling with the same gender it's no sin to love in fact its a blessing to love with any body.......
and now my sis is married with her girlfriend......
she had the same case with you but it diddint tell her to stop the relationship so yes shes on to you and you are in to her.....
be happy Feyridz .................
2007-03-20 20:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by feyridz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like tomboy, or a minimum of non-stererotypical ladies. ladies who arent afraid to have their very own character and hate each and all of the cliquey primary ladies with the pretend faces. dislike emo dislike modern punk, yet like a woman with a sturdy appreciation of previous punk track no longer something against silent if i will get her to open up comparable with shy swears plenty isnt a prob for me
2016-10-02 12:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by wyckoff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are afraid to ask if shes into "you", ask if shes into girls. like, "have you ever been attracted to another girl, cause i want to know if i am the only one?" or word it anyway you feel comfortable. and about another comment you made, don't let your family influence your personal life. you are the only one who has to live with and be happy with your choices. do everything you do in your personal life for you and no one else!!
2007-03-20 20:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT.GET A BOTTLE OF WINE MAKE HER DINNER .DRESS IN VERY SEXY FEMININE CLOTHING AND SEE IF THE WINE OPENS YOU BOTH UP.IT IS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST THAN TO NOT HAVE LOVED AT ALL.LIFE IS TOO SHORT. GET MOVING ON THIS ,.WHEN YOUR 95 YEARS OLD AND ALL YOU HAVE IS MEMORIES AND REGRETS,LET THIS ONE BE A SWEET ONE FOR YOU!BEST WISHES ....FREDDY..
2007-03-20 20:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by freddelorme35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, ive had a similiar situation like that,,,but i flat out acted out...was the best 3 yrs with a girl ever...hmm
2007-03-20 22:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is her name start with a G? Who is the actor....James Spader
2007-03-20 19:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by raaainbow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋