I have always loved straight men. I am 19. He is 46 straight divorced army guy. He says that he likes talking to me. I say I like talking and being with him because I love him so much. He is so nice, cute, just my type, muscled and well educated.
2007-03-20 19:41:24 · 16 answers · asked by sweet boy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
19 goes into 46 how many times?
And you said he was straight, right?
You need to go after your own sexual preference and leve the straight guys alone. It will only hurt you.
2007-03-20 19:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by mike 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he is a STRAIGHT "army" guy you may not want to bring up that youre gay, it could go poorly. He's 46 youre 19 find a guy closer to your generation. Many army guys are very homophobic (not all) but the ones that are can be the worst kind of honophob, the violent kind that have been trained to kill
2007-03-20 19:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Rob 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am usually the first to say GO FOR IT, hunny! But in this case I am going to reserve that and say Don't Do It!
If he's straight, then nothing can come of your love for him. He'll be flattered, but he'll never love you back the way you love him.
Although he may be very smart, handsome and perfect.. and he may be very deserving of your love. Nothing will ever happen between yall, because he is straight. :-(
Sounds like you have set yourself up for a huge dissapointment. You allowed yourself to have feelings for someone who was supposed to be "just a friend". Sad
Cheers
2007-03-20 19:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you jump in feet first. Test the waters. Try and find out what he thinks about gay people. Don't tell him you are, not yet. Just see whether it would be a good idea or not. Once you think that it is ok, then by all means go ahead.
Good luck
2007-03-20 22:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Oracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your turn-on with striaght men? Why not gay men? Also, if he says he likes talking to you, does he know your gay? Is he really straight? Why are you into such older guys? Are you looking for some kind of father figure you never had? If he's what you like then go for it, but I suspect some psychology issue going on here, not a healthy attraction.
2007-03-20 19:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's straight. Do you want to lose him as a friend as well?
2007-03-20 21:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
heeeeeeeeeeeey.
think again plz.he is 46 and u r 19
i understand u.but u should think more
2007-03-20 19:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by TrueBlue 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well do you know him personally? If not no! I really can't say much on the age issue I've been there. hmm... It's your decision. Just becareful!
2007-03-20 19:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by mynameischeese2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should let him know that you love him!
why not?
Love is everything and the most important thing in our lives!
2007-03-20 19:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
But... wait... isnt he sraight? straigh guys dont want a guy hun. But i mean if hes gay, go for it!
2007-03-20 19:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋