i had a frirned who would .. flirt with me i guess. and at first i was freaked then after they asekd me if i was gay. i said no cuz that's what i thought.. now i dk.. made me question myself.
2007-03-20 18:55:37 · 5 answers · asked by matt t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like you're too worried about labels.
2007-03-20 18:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't know how it is for everyone else, but from the first time I can remember, I've had crushes on girls. I figure, whoever you first start having crushes on, say 4-6, determines your sexual orientation. Maybe others out there have felt attractions towards both sexes early on. The confusion comes when people try to go against their own nature, and end up questioning their own sexuality. If you're having doubts, on a consistent basis, I'd say you are indeed homosexual, or at the very least, bisexual. Most times though, I think it's easier for people to say they're bisexual, than to admit to themselves that they are gay; not that there's anything wrong with that.
That's my two cents for ya.
2007-03-20 19:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by dontsmokecrackorshootthatsmack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer: You either do or don't. It is a question of who you are attracted to, right? That can change, and will. You will have more than one attraction to a person, and who knows? I would say if you like girls these days, say that. Same if you like guys. You can also just say that you "aren't attracted to anyone today". Let them think about that. Then you think on it. Or don't. Whatever you do, be honest at that moment, and follow your heart and other parts. Good Luck.
2007-03-20 19:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by earthcaress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a strange easy way to figure it out: When you think of girls feet, does flowers, sexiness, and a yearning to touch and rub them come to mind? When you think about guys feet, does sweaty stench, toe jam and funk come to mind? If so, your into girls. If not and it's the other way around, your into guys.
Or, think of this: do you want to be held tight by a person bigger, more masculine than you to feel secure, or do you want to provide that feeling to a smaller, feminine human being? If you want to provide, your straight. If you want to be held tight and safe, your probably gay.
If both of these, your bi.
I say this because I've noticed that I love girls feet and when I think of pretty pink toes or legs in knee socks, I think of plesant things. But I've always noticed that when I simply see guys in sock or with their crusty feet exposed, I think of stench. And I feel great to provide the hug and secure feeling to a cute dainty chick, feel nasty when imagining if a big guy wrapped his arms around me in the same way. Chicks are sweet peaches to me, guys are sweaty armpits....which makes me a sweaty armpit.
EDIT: dontsmokecrackorshoott...- Everything you said was true accept I'd add that sometimes people who are in question of their sexuality are still straight, but for a time is bicurious. Sometimes they choose to live as gays or bisexuals because they're not sure what they are but feel compelled to pick a label. Some of these people later realize their straight, or gay, or bi, and so no long bicurious.
A thumbs down for me. Yes, I must be a lunatic.
2007-03-20 20:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
who do you want to have hot sex with?
--that should give you an answer.
2007-03-20 18:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋