2007-03-20 18:45:03 · 22 answers · asked by needy boy 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
knock her down. spit on it and shove it in. tell her she is pretty and you will love her forever. buy her some flowers and doughnuts.
2007-03-20 18:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
First of all, you sound young. Most people who are mature enough to have sex don't post this kind of question on the net. Okay, so that being said, do you love her? sounds like you do or you wouldn't want to comfort her. Second, if you love her, and she is nervous, that may be a sign that this step is not something you or her are ready for. Why don't you show her how much you care by just waiting and being there for her still. That would prove that it isn't about sex, it's about being with her. Try it. Be different.
2007-03-21 01:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by mrsL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK How old are you? Are you of consenual age. At least read up about it. Do you have protection. (like contraception) just having sex for sex sake when you are very young can set you up
for life with the wrong feelings for sex. Make sure you are mature enough to handle it. And all your H..y males you will always be out there to give wrong advice. Thinking with your lower brain again
2007-03-21 01:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by commonsense2265 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really caring and considerate of you to ask. Not many guys would put in this effort!
-Make sure you have adequate supplies and PROTECTION. Condoms (it would be ideal if she was on the Pill on top of that)--more than 1 condom in case the 1st breaks...or in case you want to try again :-) , lube (i.e. KY).
-listen to her! always ask before you do anything. Keep your eye on her face and if she looks the slightest bit discomforted, STOP and ask her if she's ok.
-go very slowly. give yourselves lots of time (i.e. don't start at 11 at night when you both have to get up early!). Be prepared to stop at points and wait for her to relax and "let you in".
-don't be afraid to talk to her before, during, and after. let her know your feelings--emotional and physical.
-be safe, have fun!! hope it goes well. Don't expect the first time to be "amazing"--just concentrate on making her comfortable (as you already are! :-) The more you do it, the better it will get.
2007-03-21 01:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If either one of is under 18 don't do it!
But if you are of age just don't rush it. Be patient and gentle and be absolutely certain that's what she really wants. Telling her she would do it if she really loved you is coercion and very unfair to both of you. You might get what you want temporarily, but she will end up resenting you for it.
And USE A CONDOM!!!
2007-03-21 01:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Comfort her? how about comforting yourself after you realize you have taken away her precious virtue and God will hold you responsible for that. How about how her parents will feel to know that you have abused and soiled their daughter?
2007-03-21 02:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better learn about foreplay and safe sex
2007-03-21 02:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay any attention to porno movies. So many of us make that mistake. Think more about your loving her soul which is in her body so love that body.
2007-03-21 01:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fix her hot tea with lemon? Give her a blanky?
2007-03-21 01:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to comfort her, maybe you shouldn't have sex. It could be considered rape.
2007-03-21 01:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Shushan A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex wif me 1st then i will tell u!
a naked gurl waiting 4 u!
2007-03-21 05:10:56 · answer #11 · answered by gurlgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋