Are there signs that I can pick up on that will give me clues to if he really has deep and true feelings for me?? Does care at all about me?? If you know any Scorpio men well, have been with one or is with one, then you know how secretive, moody, un-expressive, mysterious, quiet and un-emotional they can be......Some days I think he does, some days, I question it. You know how they are.............afraid to let their true feelings be known. I'm falling for him and I don't know what I should do, act or say........if anything to even let him think so..........If he doesn't feel the same, then it's useless for me. He's tough to figure out. We have had plenty of ups and downs, gone through the mind games, experienced his stings and I'm still around!!!! He can be hot and cold. Lately, sweet as sugar, but I'm waiting for that BOOM to hit me again! Help!!!!
2007-03-20 18:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by artutina 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Ahh I feel your pain. As an astrologer, and a girl currently in a relationship with a Scorpio I know exactly how you feel.
First, astrology aside - my suggestion is to tell him the truth. What you need to do is sit him down and talk to him without tension and yelling and point blank ask him what he is thinking, feeling and wanting. You need to talk about your expectations and he needs to tell you his. The three most important things in a relationship are:
1) Communication
2) Honesty
3) Fairness / Trust
Communication is absolutely the most important aspect to any relationship. If you cannot talk to someone, then you cannot relate. It's that simple.
Although they (Scorpio's) do not always give the truth freely, they appreciate when you tell them how you feel truthfully. Besides, how can you or anyone else for that matter, trust someone when they are not honest about their feelings.
In any relationship, you have to keep an open mind and trust your partner. If you cannot be open to what they have to say and work at the relationship, then you will not have the relationship that you want.
Being with a Scorpio myself, I understand that their moodiness and their propensity to keep things in doesn't help our fight to keeping an open and honest relationship. I can honestly say that your patience will be tested, but if you can help him understand why you are becomming impatient then he should be understanding and want to work with you.
They can be the most elusive and manipulative jerks you can think of. Then they can be the most tender, loving and sweetest people on earth. With this being said, if you can approach them with an open mind, heart and arms, then you will get everywhere.
2007-03-20 20:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to start with they are far from being un emotional they just hide it very well, a scorpio won't open up unless they feel secure. there not that hard to figure out u just need patience. my little bro is one and we are best friends, they are a force to be reckoned with but u just have to know how to talk to them, never talk down to them and never put them down as they are proud people.just be patient u wouldn't still be there if you didn't find something interesting about him. give him time and enjoy the ride cos once he trusts u enough to open up u'll never want to turn back.
2007-03-21 00:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by mandiej81 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
lol, oh boy they are just so hard to figure out! im dating one now and had previous relationship for 5 yrs with one. the one im dating is all that u described except he dosent argue with me at all. our situations are so alike because im catching feelings and i know he trust and likes me but sometimes he goes off into his own world that dosent include anyone (but his dog) and its frustrating. but when we are together there is so much passion and i can look in his eyes and feel him. we've stopped talken for a couple of months (i caused a argument) but called him up and we started bk dating again so i know he's really into me because they dont look bk! just listen to what he is saying when he talks. they let stuff slip out about their emotions but u have to really be listening to catch it because it will not be repeated. (plus a lil liquor helps wit my guy). He feels the same way about u as u feel for him but they are not expressive like the rest of the world and like to be in control of everything (especially their feelings) :-)
2007-03-21 01:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ma Baby 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask him flat out and give him space to decide how to answer. maybe email, maybe out loud but say it and say you don't need an answer right then. my scorpio will tell me what I ask, but only what I ask, so be careful how you phrase the question.
2007-03-20 18:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by gwennyveer 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am a scorpio,could that be a reason for my name?
All I know is Aquarius and Scorpio,,watch out for the fireworks,but it;s all fun..
2007-03-20 18:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋