my bro is in pune and I am in mumbai, Now I have an option to relocate to pune as part of my work, but there there is one girl in mumbai I am not sure bout the feelings between us (I am sure about mine ) shuld I move or not
2007-03-20 18:22:46 · 4 answers · asked by sagar_abhinav 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You should relocate for your job as that's what puts food on the table and pays your bills. To give up your ambition and aspiration for some girl whose genuine feelings for you are questionable is ludicrous. That's a vey shaky factor to consider in your final decision. This move might be what's crucial in your life. Besides, going to an unfamiliar place with your brother there; he will show you the ropes. And you can emulate and learn a lot from his experience. Moreover, kinship is a good foundation to rely on. A would be love interest is whimsical.
2007-03-20 18:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by rosieC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if there is only one girl in Mumbai, how many men are there?
Serioulsy though, if you and this lady are on speaking terms, you should ask her not us. The best person to know what she feels would be her.
No offense but why ask us?
Why not get it straight from the horse's mouth?
Good luck
2007-03-21 01:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't you visit her from time to time? can't you email each other? If there is nothing concrete between the two of you then forget about her and find someone else. If you really like her then talk with her, tell her how you feel, say you are planning to move and ask what she thinks.
2007-03-21 01:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move. If your not even sure about your feelings for this girl, don't stay for her.
2007-03-21 01:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋