It seems difficult to find a guy who just wants to be in a monogonous relationship. I'm 19 and I'm just ready to find that one person who is right for me, but guys my age don't seem to be interested in that. Anyone else have this problem? Should I just wait until I'm older to even think about this?
2007-03-20 18:08:28 · 10 answers · asked by mike 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i have been waiting for a long time..but i know that he is out there..i just have to be patient..there is someone out there for all of us...and yes..it does seem difficult to find a guy like that...
i wish you all the luck with your search!!!
2007-03-20 18:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by grlw1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to wait. If you are ready for a relationship then continue looking. It may take awhile to find someone, but there are probably tons of guys that are interested in a relationship. They may just be harder to find than the one nighters.
Just don't let them get to third base on the first date. We wouldn't want to get a reputation, would we? LOL
Good luck and wish you well.
2007-03-20 18:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the advice of an "older" man: relax and don't obsess about finding a boyfriend. Don't even look for one. Just enjoy life and your friends. When you least expect it, Mr. Wonderful will walk into your life. You could meet him anywhere: online, at school, at the market, in the car next to you....you never know when or where he'll show up.
If you want to look, I suggest expanding your social circle by joining groups, clubs, sports teams, organizations (professional, academic, hobby enthusiasts, whatever). You will meet new people and their friends and soon you'll catch someone's eye.
In the meantime....BIG BEHR HUGS!
2007-03-21 04:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made a career of looking for love in all the wrong places.
You just have to be unwavering in you convictions to be monogamous. Don't settle, don't end up going to the bars and bathhouses, as I did. I felt the whole world didn't want what I wanted, so I changed my rules. From all the hard experience I went through comes this advise. Just be patient and be OK with yourself until "Mr. Right" comes along.
2007-03-20 18:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont wait mate. u at ur prime age. u dont want to turn into an old prink and just then looking for love. i'm sure theres a lot of people out there who r into monogamous relationship. may be u looking at the wrong place. i know i'm into a mono.
2007-03-20 21:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by confused and loving it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have trouble finding a boyfriend and I just give it time and set up dates when I can and hope it works out hang in there things will get better
2007-03-20 19:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by david15882002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has that problem, mike. One day you just meet somebody and BAM your whole world changes...It didn't happen for me until I was about 27.
2007-03-20 18:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
play the field , but be safe.
never leave home without your raincoat!
2007-03-20 19:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by john john 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i want a guy too, but your a little young for that dude, have some sex while you can.
2007-03-20 19:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to turn straight or bisexual.
2007-03-20 18:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋