I logged on Myspace and my Fiancee ex wrote her and said "Hey check out the page, and add me when you get the chance". Should I be mad? Or what?
2007-03-20 18:01:18 · 20 answers · asked by sbravens35 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well no! and its because it sounds like he found her not her looking for him and he did not really say anything like hey check out my page and then come jump my bones! so i would see what she does and even if she does except his friend request there is a reason he is her ex and you are the man she is going to marry so unless you are insecure let it be and show her how much you trust her and your guys love!
2007-03-20 18:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad, as that will only get you into a fight that you do not want to go to! If your relationship is true, and you BOTH tell each other the truth about everything your safe. Myspace is either a evil place or a great place, all depends on the person behind the writing. Do you know her ex? Are you friends? Is she the one that told you about him saying "check out my page?" If she is telling you everything up front, Ur all good. Also how long has she been Ur fiancee? Are you a jealous person? Think it might be time for the two of you to sit down and talk about what you want out of a marriage and if trust is going to be a problem. Whatever happens handsome, good luck and best wishes...
2007-03-21 18:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by girl4whales 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be mad? Why were you on her page? Seems you have some serious trust and jealousy issues. So, what? now a person is not allowed to be friends with somone they once dated. I am happily married, and one of the ladies I dated before I got married is still a frind of mine, whenever i am in town, we meet up, chat a little, have luch, and catch up. She's happily married and I have met they guy, I was at their wedding.
Common, if you gonna think about marrage, why dont you grow up and stop playing these little kid games of "Oh she talked to him so they must be secrectly having sex every day at lunch" your fiancee is an adult and she has the right to be friends with whomever she wants, and if you think you have the right to tell her who NOT to be friends with...i hope she dumps your insecure butt and tellls you to call her when you decide that you can actually be in a relationship. I'm sure you have no problem with talking to another girl, and I'm sure that you have girls that are on your MySpace page. I mean, God forbid someone actually be a little more mature than you and realize that just because 2 ppl date and decide that they arent good as partners, they still can be friends.
So...to recap
Stop spying on your fiancee...
If you have a problem with her....talk to HER (not US)...
And make a note to try to grow up sometime, I'm sure your finacee would apprciate it.
2007-03-20 18:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you planning on getting married to a person with a Myspace page?
Time to trade up and get someone mature for a wife.
As for the question, yes you should be mad as your fiancee is cheating on you. Dump her now before she cheats again.
2007-03-20 18:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF your girlfriend is wise, she will decline the invitation. If you see that she has added him as a friend, be honest with her and let her know that you aren't comfortable with him being on her friends' list. If she is considerate, she will then delete him. If she doesn't want to, then I'd actually take it seriously enough to rethink marriage. Yeah, this might be a little bitty thing. But it's still a red flag. And you need to pay attention to all the little "red flags" BEFORE you enter into a commitment like marriage. At least settle in for a long engagement - - - - just to make sure.
2007-03-20 18:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit snooping! Don't marry her if you don't trust her. Who wants a controlling, jealous husband? You wouldn't want to get an e-mail from any of your exes saying Hi, how are you? how's life turned out for you? Yes, myspace is an evil black hole. but only if you go searching for naughtiness. Just be honest and open with her about how you feel.
2007-03-20 18:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be. Seems like a petty thing to argue over. If they have remained friends then that should be expected. Of course this could just be a play on his part to try to get her back. It all boils down to your trust for her. If you trust her then why worry... then again if your trusted her you wouldn't be checking up on her myspace account.
2007-03-20 18:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na dont be mad, so far nothing to be mad about, now if they start having intimate convo's or start flirting thats a different story, but just him asking her to check out his page, Big deal.. have faith in her.. and wait and see how she handles the situation, it will definately give u a feel for what to expect after u take ur vows, on whether she can handle this kind of thing like a mature adult or like an idiot that has zero respect for u.. but id be willing to bet she'll handle it fine.. so just cool your jets, if u get upset everytime a guy says hi to her, ur going to drive yourself crazy and her away.. so just chill out for now..
2007-03-20 18:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have chosen to stay away from Myspace because of that very thing...jealousy. You definitely need to talk to your fiance about how you're feeling, jumping to conclusions is never a good thing! You need to be honest with her and she will (hopefully) be honest with you!
Good luck!
2007-03-20 18:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Cathryn 4 Christ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Oh Oh myspace is crazy, it is where you learn to be happy or said, where you learn to trust or you delete your page.. I would not get mad but keep your eyes open
2007-03-20 18:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋