2007-03-20 17:57:28 · 30 answers · asked by Macy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To tell me that our relationship is was a mistake...
2007-03-20 18:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a very forgiving person if just because I don't want the anger to poison me. There have been a lot of things said to me that were pretty horrible and that I will never forget, but I cannot think of anything I would not forgive. That is not to say I would not end the relationship if he said he cheated or something, but I would not hold a grudge for the rest of my life.
2007-03-21 01:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jill M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Significant others always know the right buttons to push, what will hurt u the most etc.. so for everyone its different.. basically i cant forgive anything that is said that will always be in the back of my mind wondering if it was a true feeling or just said out of anger.. fortunately for me and my husband, we have a deal... never say anything that u cant take back... plain and simple..
2007-03-21 01:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your at a friends Wedding , you notice that your husband has disappeared and your kids . you go to look for him and your children and he is in the play room of the church. Talking to a woman that you don't know. Your kids run up to him daddy this and that . Next thing you hear is this woman that you don't know ask your husband if these are his kids, and you hear him reply "No they belong to some woman I Know * Yeah true story. I left the wedding with his best friend and he was left like the idiot he was to walk home and consider his actions and pratice signing his name to divorce papers .
2007-03-21 02:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by ravenwhitehorse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing I would not forgive my spouse for saying. We all say stupid things. I have said some pretty rotten things, but it's just hurtful talk.
2007-03-21 01:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by ohbrother 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know about what he could say but actions would speak 100 times louder than words. For example, a slap, punch, kick, sex with another, words could not compare. I hate it though when men call women C?n###t
2007-03-21 01:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by mizzmel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is such vague question ... but one of things i wud never forgive my BF for saying is that cheated or is cheating on me ... or if he ever said anything offensive about my parents ...and prolly the most biggest thing that he cud say to me that i wud never ever forgive him for is if he said to me that i dont love him ....hehe... I LOVE HIM SO MUCH
2007-03-21 01:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by khushbu_128 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness should be unconditional ... but if a pattern repeats you've got to be honest with yourself and realize your other half has some bottled up anger. After all, why else would you say something to hurt someone you love?
2007-03-21 01:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he put me down or called me a name. I show respect to people and I expect it back. If he's going to treat me this way now then he is going to do the same things later on.
2007-03-21 01:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
December of 2006 when I caught my husband having an affair with married woman,and he told me that he is developing deep feelings for her, finding out that they have a lot of things in common,and she is his ideal woman,but my life with him was not thought about.the years that I spent with him,....please don't go to sex,cause its not
2007-03-21 01:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 15 years. My husband has NEVER remember my birthday. That PISSES me off, because my birthday is the day before his.
I think he does this on purpose because he does not like being told what to do. *sigh*
2007-03-21 01:01:09 · answer #11 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋