I am 15 and have never had a boyfriend!?!?

Question

I dont even think anybody likes me! I am pretty ugly but not deformed, i dont know what to do. What age did you start dating? is this normal?!?

Answer 1

me too you are not alone except i am sixteen

Answer 2

You are suffering from a case of "ugly duckling". I was 15 and never had a boyfriend, after I turned 17, I just started taking better care of myself, I felt prettier so I acted prettier. Remember that right now you are young and having boyfriends is important to you but not important enough to call yourself mean names like ugly. You aren't ugly. I don't believe there is such thing as ugly because I've seen "ugly" and it's usually a personality not a face. I know that you don't want to hear this, cuz that's how I was. I was really shy too. I hid behind my two friends who did have boyfriends all the time. Start seeing how your personality is. Are you sweet, kind, smart, funny, shy,? All these things are important and believe it or not, even guys think so. Focus on school and you'll see that boys who are worth it will notice. But do NOT make the mistake of giving yourself to the first boy who may happen to come along.

Answer 3

Don't worry about it. Only the sluts and people who will never do anything but get pregnant at 18 and pop one out every two years until their lives are full of nothing but children start dating young. Once you get into college you're really in luck when it comes to guys, because not only will you be at your most attractive, but a lot of the crappy guys have been weeded out through flunking high school, and you will actually know what you want in a guy. I didn't even think about dating until I was 14 and my wife pinned me into dating her, but we are both fairly ugly, but there is always someone for someone, and they will all meet at some point in time, and seeing as how you haven't even finished out the first 1/4 of your life chances are you haven't met him yet.

Answer 4

Hey, don't be so hard on yourself! I had my first boyfriend at 21. I was quite attractive, but always thought I was ugly then, but realise I was not, looking back at old photos.

I bet you're not as ugly as you think you are. Learn some makeup techniques, get your hair styled, and if you need to lose some weight, just eat the right foods sensibly and exercise (a 30 minute walk a day will do it).

Concentrate on yourself, do things that make you happy, have fun with your friends, forget about boys, and one will come along at the right time. Good luck.

Answer 5

Most people don't don't by that age, the ones that do stand out and mesmerize us all. The folks who spend their teen years developing themselves and loving themselves, rather than trying to find a boy to date them, are the folks who have more to offer as grownups dating.

Are you really pretty ugly? Or are you just growing into your features and body and changing hormones? Either way, lots of ugly people date and marry, that's for sure. And lots of very lovely women thought they were ugly girls.

Relax, dive into your life, have a blast. There's plenty of time for dating.

Answer 6

hey, you need to stop being so down on yourself! I was always made fun of in school and boys never liked me. then over the summer when I was going into 10th grade something changed and all those boys who had once made fun of me and called me names were asking me out! and it will happen for you too!
the first step is being confident. learn to like yourself and don't be saying that you're ugly because I'm sure you're not. and stand up straight, look people in the eyes when you talk to them, and accept yourself for who you are. when you learn to accept and respect yourself, others will do the same. and don't worry about being asked out right now. it will happen, I promise! I was fifteen when guys started to like me, so don't be surprised if things start changing for you very soon!
Best Wishes.

Answer 7

look boo you do not have to be ugly just cuz u neva had a boo look if you thik that you are pretty f*** what anyone else thinks im pretty sure you will find a boy that is right for u if u just look now keep your head up and you stay beautiful and dont let this hold you down cuz your betta than that boys aint everything but you gotta love em

Answer 8

OK, listen to me, because I am the expert on this:

The name of the game is "self confidence". Nothing succeeds like the appearance of success. Say that.

Say "Nothing succeeds like the appearance of success".

Have you ever seen "Silence of the Lambs"? This may sound crude, but this really works. It's called "extreme positive thinking" to will yourself into success. This isn't meant to be something offensive or tactless, but just try it once: Go to a mirror, look at yourself, and say "I'd f*** me. I'd f*** me hard". And you have to mean it. Say it a couple times out loud. Now say it in your head as you go about your day. I even put it in the middle of my sentences when I talk to people. No joke. I'll say something like "Oh hey (Idfkme) how are you doing today?".

Eventually it turns into a state of thinking. No longer do you feel bad about yourself, thinking that no one likes you. Rather, you hold your chin high and say confidently that "I'd f*** me". And it feels good. People can sense that aura-of-confidence, and they love it. They are turned off by those who seem insecure. But people love characters that always have a positive attitude, and are overly self-confident.

And you aren't "ugly". Ugly is merely a term defined by the pop culture at the time, and changes its meaning as frequently as the tax-codes. I promise you're not as ugly as me. I'm so ugly, when I was born, the doctor slapped my mother. My first job was working for another doctor, in fact. I'm so ugly, he hired me to stand in front of his office to make people sick.

Answer 9

Take time to be this age. You will never be 15 again and you are an adult with adult responsibilities for the rest of your life which is a looooooong time.. The day will come when you will wish to be 15 again. But you can not change time

Answer 10

From experience, having a boyfriend to early is a bad thing. I doubt you are ugly. Most girls have problems with their images at your age and before worrying about having a boyfriend, take the time to take care of yourself and enjoy being you.

Answer 11

Your not alone. I didn't date until 18. I'm 20 and married now. It's perfectly normal not to date. Dating isn't all it's cracked up to be. Trust me it's better to be alone before marriage because you don't have to go through the drama of dating and breaking up.