My boyfriend is going to be the best man in his friends wedding. You see the couple that are getting married have a little girl and have been together for a while. Well he went to the gym with one of the groomsman yesterday, and they were talking about the wedding. The groomsman told my boyfriend that "back in the day" the bride to be would call him and tell hm to go over to her house because her man (groom) was gone. He also said that they were at a party once and the "groom" had passed out and everyone was messing with the bride. This was before they had their daughter though. And now theyre getting married in about a week and my boyfriend doesnt want to say anything. They have done so much planning and have gone through so much trouble to have this wedding. I just hope shes no longer this way because its really messed up. Should my boyfriend say something or not?
2007-03-20 16:59:58 · 8 answers · asked by Princess Rach 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
The things that Ive said supposedly happened about 2 years ago.
2007-03-20 17:29:48 · update #1
no i dont think so
2007-03-20 17:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was my friend and I knew for a fact that he/she was about to marry a whore I'd say something. But I wonder what exactly was the point of this guy telling your boyfriend this? Is it true? Is it a lie? Does this guy have a thing for the bride-to-be and is hoping your boyfriend will tell the future groom and the wedding will be off? Hmm. This is a tough one. Unless it was a really close friend or family member I'd probably keep my mouth shut. I noticed some of the people have said "maybe she'll change". If it was a guy they'd say "once a cheater, always a cheaters". Double standards.
2007-03-21 05:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he should say anything and risk having his friend mad at him over it, if the other dude knows than surely someone has alluded to it or has said something around the groom that would make him suspect. But either he doesn't want to see it or he knows that she is no longer that way.
2007-03-21 00:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend should not say anything and hope that she has changed, because people do change. Especially since this happened way in the past as it sounds like it did.....
2007-03-21 00:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by otisisstumpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he should say anything.You should let him find out for himself.Plus this was just a rumor and if it was true she may not be that way anymore.
2007-03-21 00:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by damarony896 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he shouldn't. Just because she used to act this way doesn't mean that's who she is now.
2007-03-21 00:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by biancajh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be a mistake to bring it up,since your boyfriend doesn't know anything first hand.
2007-03-21 01:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, if she's still that way, then yes. If not, let it go.
2007-03-21 00:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋