My husband is in USMC and he has his first deployment next month..Im really nervous! Any veterans out there with advice?
2007-03-20 16:27:00 · 3 answers · asked by ktrc21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry, I am not, just wanted to say Thanks to you and your husband for your sacrifice!
2007-03-20 16:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe i an help. i am former US Navy, and my husband is a chief. He is leaving next month for deployment. From expereince, i can tell you TRUST is the key. You have to be able to trust eachother or this isnt going to work. You both need to understand that you have to support eachother. He will feel as if your life is alien, and you will feel the same about his. but if you listen t him and he listens to you and you both make the effort to understand what the other is going through, you will survive. Find something new about eachother each day, and use that to keep you connected. you both will be under alot of stress, and he might not realize what stress you re under being left behind. I have been deployed myself, and it isnt a cake walk. It is very stressful and he may just want to vent..
My advice:
Communicate!!
Trust!!!
Listen to eachother!
2007-03-20 23:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl...ima bout to become the wife of a army soldier..he's gettin deployed june 12 th..when he told me i was sooo mad..im still not over it..im scared..nervous..but i dont let him see that..he needs my support..i have to tell him that evrything will be alright..chillax everything will be okay..our country takes care of our soldiers!
2007-03-20 23:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by zullyboricua267 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋