I meet this girl a few months ago, and we totally hit it off as friends (at lest I think "friends"), right away. I was immediately drawn to her (I DON’T KNOW WHY!), and she to me. Throughout my life I've thought that some girls were pretty, beautiful, and some just firkin gorgeous (never having any sexually feelings towards them)!!!
But with her...I wanna smile every time she's near. I can't and I don't want to keep my heart from soaring high, when she smiles. Oh my, I can’t even look in her stunning gray blue eyes, without wanting to kiss her senseless! And does she have delicately pink kissable lips?! Oh yes she does! I always want to touch her, just to make sure she’s for real. This is sooo weird I'M STRAIGHT...or at lest I was. I’m soo effing confused…I want to cry!!! My fam would kill me if I was GAY! But I don’t care, anymore.
Anyway, when ever were are alone talking, after awhile for some reason she stops and we just can’t stop looking into each others eyes. She’ll continue to gaze into my eyes until I shyly look away. Then she’ll say, “Man, I LUV you” with such feeling. Then she jumps back into the conversation as if nothing happened. I catch her staring at me a lot, and she smiles. She’s constantly kissing my cheeks, stroking my hair, resting her head on my shoulder when were alone watching a movie, and sometimes holding and stroking my hand. Since we met we have hanged out more with each other than with anyone else.
I use to think I was straight…but now I’m in LOVE with another woman!!! I have never asked her if she was straight or gay…because she said she had a crush on a male actor. I don’t know how to tell if she likes me, she’s so unpredictable. Where both very attractive, so I don’t want to say anything if she’s does not share my feelings.
So I’m asking you, is she into me???
2007-03-20 16:24:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well try asking her what she would do if you kissed her? and ask her if she could ever see herself dating you & tell her how you think about her just be honest really because she'll love it!!
2007-03-20 16:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Faith 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
From your description of the situation, it looks as if she does have a certain thing going on here. Sometimes we do meet people where we are not sure of their sexual orientation, and we hit it off so well, that we realize we are actually falling in love with each other. It can be devastating at times if both don't know or accept the fact that they could be gay/lesbian till it happens. If you are extremely comfortable with the idea, why not reciprocate her gestures to start with, and see where you can reach. Just be sure to know that this is what you want, for tomorrow, when either of you starts to feel a change in feelings, it could lead to a lot of heartache and hurt, and disgust.
2007-03-20 20:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like it but be care-full, if she is gay she should have let you know maybe you are just curious I wouldn't think she would have been so friendly if she was or knew she was gay. My daughter is lesbian and she always makes sure new friends know but she doesn't come on to girls anyway they have always made the first move[good job cause she a bit shy] also she has known since she was around 14/15 and told me [I already had an idea] when she was 16, well actually her girl-friend told me.. I think you should just see how things pan out it will happen anyway if that is what you both want.. Don't you think it could be a bit of a disaster if you tried it on and she ran a mile. There again maybe she is shy/not sure just like you. Good luck.....
2007-03-20 16:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Spike 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"and does she have delicately pink kissable lips?! Oh yes she does"
haahahahhaahah aawwwwww
I am going through the same thing! I'm also the girl who looks away from my crush's gaze and her soft kissable lips! (lol)
Oh, but she doesn't kiss my cheek or stroke my hair or anything like that. I am so jealous. -pouts-
She is most likely into you or just friendly. I'm willing to bet more than friends.
2007-03-20 18:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i noe exactly what you are feeling right now at this moment. It was an ordinary day at work and i say this girl who i thought was pretty and wanted to talk to her and get to know her more! then one day i see her again and this time we hang out and just start getting to noe each other. but then i tell her that i think she is pretty and she questions me are u a lesbian? i was like no i am straight. then she said because im lesbian. i was shocked. so the rest of the time she questioned me and i was interested in her and didnt know why? the funny thing was she was interested in to me too. well i started having feelings for her and she did too. but one problem we were both in a relationship. i was with my ex boyfriend and she was with her girlfriend. but we still flirted and felt things toward each other. but my advice to you would be to let her noe how you feel and find out if she is really bi or lesbian. because you want more that just friends and she might not. just find out so things can be clear between each other.
2007-03-20 17:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm definitely getting a more than just friends vibe from both of you based on what you typed. It sounds like you're both ready to, and want to, take the relationship to the next level.
2007-03-20 18:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might be into you.
I guess the best way to approach this would be to tell her that you have been getting these signals from her, & it's ok if they are not what you think , but you just want to find out.
Tell her that you want to stay friends & maybe more, but you don't want it to be uncomfortable.
My guess is that she will try to hook up with you. Sounds that way to me.
Don't be ashamed at the way you feel either.
Whether you're gay or straight or bi, as long as you're comfortable in your own skin...that's all that matters ;-)
2007-03-20 16:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by mrauscher74 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well see I was in your same situation with this girl then I found out that she liked me too....what you need to do is see what her prefrences are then see if possibly she could be into you.....the girl that I liked told me that she liked me first then we hit it off from there....we have been dating since then and we are still together and I don't plan on ever breaking up with her or losing her.....my family was mad at first but they are slowly getting over it day by day...go with your heart that's all I can say
2007-03-20 17:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by aerogrl872000 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i like tomboy, or a minimum of non-stererotypical ladies. ladies who arent afraid to have their very own character and hate each and all of the cliquey primary ladies with the pretend faces. dislike emo dislike modern punk, yet like a woman with a sturdy appreciation of previous punk track no longer something against silent if i will get her to open up comparable with shy swears plenty isnt a prob for me
2016-10-02 11:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by stinnette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she is in to you well there is only one way to find out kiss her on the lips and see how it goes from there or you could sit down and explain the situation to her and who cares what your family or friends think they should love you for you and if thats what you are then they should be happy for you i hope it all works out and good luck
2007-03-21 03:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably does like you, and it is very obvious you like her. Don't let it bother you whatsoever what anyone elxse thinks. On here, poeple wqith post rude answers, say rude things, and your friends and family will even critisze. But son't worry. Follow your heart, ask her if she likes you (but first clear it up that you like her), and then if she does like you, ask her out. Good luck!
2007-03-20 16:37:49 · answer #11 · answered by sunshinee<3 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋