1). How come people only have like maybe 1 best friend in the whole wide world & the rest of her stuck up friends just want to be all alone with other people and being so grouchy all the time?
2). When you see a girl/ or boy walking threw the hallways, would u judged them by there lookd or personality. like if there shy,ugly,fat,skinny,long hair,old clothes. what would u say to them to make them feel special? like hey, how are u? what's your name... u know stuff like that? need some opinoins...!!! :)
2007-03-20 16:18:42 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda P 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1) I think in life its alot easier to maintain just one really close friend. You know, like have one person to share all your secrets and feelings with. It seems a little more secure. However, its really stupid to shut everyone else out. A balance needs to be maintained. No one says you have to have a really close friend and be rude to everyone else. Its alot easier if you respect others but when it comes down to it... mostly confide in your best friend.
2) I used to judge people by their appearance when I was younger. Eventually, you get over that and realize that what truly matters is whats on the inside (...as cheesy as that sounds). The best way to make someone feel special is just to be a friend. Its as easy as having a convo in between classes while your gettin your books from your locker. Just being accepted by one person can make a big difference in a person's life.
I hope that answers your questions :D
2007-03-20 16:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. That's just the way friends work I think...it's all about the connection with another human being. Accepting one anothers flaws and liking them because of them. Not everyone is going to get along in one group..to many different personallities.
2. I would say hello and try to spark up a convo...maybe they already feel special...who knows? Don't talk to someone out of pity for them..if they knew that was the reason you were talking to them then I would think they would be even more upset then if you didn't speak to them at all. Sometimes a smile goes a long way to.
2007-03-20 23:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..to answer your first question...i don't know...because all the friends i have don't do that to me.
and to answer your second question... i judge people by their personality...if they're stuck up bitches,, then that's what makes that person ugly. i don't judge people by the way they look. i always talk to everyone. fat/skinny ugly/pretty/hot shy/outgoing. it just depends on how their personality is because that determines whether they are trusty worthy or not. every1 that i have talked to that was shy changed from who they were before...now they're a lot more outgoing and they have friends...i guess you can say that it's personality 4 me
2007-03-20 23:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by filipino_barbie_doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) People have different characters and personality ,not all the people have the same thinking,whatever you like, your friend may not like it.So there will be people who you don't really want them to be your best friend,because they are not really that ideal as you think!So people rarely met best friends in their lives!
2007-03-28 10:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by ...-_-lll... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋