Cancer THE CRAB - the sign of the Protector
Like a crab, Cancerians have a hard exterior and a sensitive and soft inner core. Their view of life is coloured by their feelings and emotions and their relationship with loved ones and family. Cancerians have a strong sense of history and ancestry and have powerful connections to the past and their memories.
Get More from Life
Honour your ability to know where you came from as well as where you are going to, and be the keeper of those important snippets from years ago to create a family scrapbook heirloom.
Ideal Careers
Architect, nurse, care worker, caterer, historian, nursery teacher, homeworker, hotelier, publican.
Advice for Partners & Friends
A good idea - to honour a Cancerian's family traditions and know they they are not always going to show their feelings when hurt.
Not so useful - to be insulting and insensitive about their mothers, as a Cancerian will hang on and bear a grudge for ages.
We love you at your Best ...
Cancerians are wonderful to be around and can be great company, amusing and able to tell stories and jokes. They have an instinctive understanding of human relationships and are great to help sort out problems and be a shoulder to cry on. Sensitive, kind and sympathetic, with an absolute urge to nurture and protect people around them, particularly the family.
Kind, sensitive, sympathetic, imaginative, maternal/paternal, solicitous, protective, cautious, patriotic, tenacious, shrewd, thrifty, resourceful, a good homemaker.
.... Difficult to Live With!
Cancer has the ability to take an emotional wound and allow it to fester, without the desire to necessarily talk through and be open. Sometimes, Cancerians will expect the the person who inflicts emotional wounds to know exactly what ails them and a relationship can turn into a guessing game punctuated by long periods of silence and sulking, or a retreat into their shell. Watch out for the mood changes.
You are most compatible with
Cancer - oh such a dreamy affair.
Taurus - cosy atmosphere.
Virgo - stimulating company.
Scorpio - paradise with sparks!
Sun Signs You are not so Compatible with
Pisces - highly charged.
Sagittarius - trouble & strife.
Scorpio - sparks & mind games!
Libra - heavy going.
Gemini - rather at odds.
Aries - a poor match.
Your Opposite Sun Sign
is Capricorn
Cancer is the protective, caretaking force of the Zodiac. He soothes and consoles, understands and nurtures. Whatever lies within his territory is kindly and generously protected, with a fierce tenacity......children, home, friends, allies and possessions. Anyone who disturbs the close circle of Cancer's home will get pinched!
The Cancer is a sensitive soul whose protective nature extends to his own carefully guarded feelings. Cancer needs to feel strong, because he is responsible for so much and so many. Any assault on his personal strength, character or integrity is considered a serious threat, and he may hide, or turn and fight with bitter words.
Because the Cancer has a very deep intuition into the feelings and motives of others, he may detect hostility that is not readily apparent to others, or that is intentionally hidden. You may see or hear him strike out at a seemingly innocent person, but Cancer knows very well what lies beneath the surface.
Cancer is sometimes called touchy and sensitive. There is much behind this sensitivity. Ruled by water, he is an imaginative, creative, flowing and maternal person. Cancer enjoys all things related with caring for others - cooking, tending to young ones, decorating, teaching, healing, and gathering food. The Ocean has a special calling to Cancer, and his moods change with the phases of the Moon. Cancer can be gruff and crabby, or a silly lunatic, but most importantly, he can always be counted on to love unconditionally and to care for his loved ones with all his heart.
How to treat your CANCER
Your Cancer man or maiden is an especially kind and nurturing soul. Cancers are observant and empathetic. Just as the Moon fills with light from the Sun, your oceanic Cancer absorbs energy from those around her, deeply feeling their needs and desires. Your Cancer, like a warm mama, loves to fulfill you and make you comfortable. Home, food, garden, nursery, work - all become the loving charge of Cancer's love and care.
Sometimes your Cancer becomes overwhelmed with concern for others, and needs to take refuge in a protective shell to be shielded from negative influences. You may find your Cancer either hiding out or complaining sadly. It's just that he is filled to the brim with external woes, and just can't please everyone. Such a frustration!
For Cancer, the Moon who rules over his heart waxes and wanes, grows full with wild lunatic ravings and joy, and shrinks into that dark place where brooding and sulking can set in. Emotions are inconstant, but so entertaining for the lucky one who has a Cancer for a friend or partner!
The Cancer needs to feel needed. Don't hesitate to ask your Cancer for help, even if she seems downhearted. It makes her feel alive. Be sure to confide your deepest feelings and desires to your Cancer. It gives him the opportunity to be more a part of you, and strive to fulfil your happiness.
Feed your Cancer with a well stocked kitchen, room for a garden, pets, cosy décor and children. Take your Cancer to the water or ocean often. Allow your Cancer opportunities to use the deep imagination and creativity within. Be kind and patient when the Moon wreaks havoc on his moods. Make sure your Cancer has privacy when needed, and feels safe and protected. Screen his calls! Make sure her locks are secure! You will be rewarded with joyful, shining moonbeam smiles, and loving comforts of home to rival the most doting of mothers!
2007-03-24 03:33:33
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answered by ♥gigi♥ 7
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Personally, I think Cancer men are some of the most sweetest and genuine individuals placed on this earth. Whoever they chose to love, they really "love" them and go out of their ways to please & make them happy. At least, that was my experiences (and I have been in relationships with 4 cancer men). I think cancer men take things slowly before they love the other person. But once love is introduced into the equation, you have to all but threaten them to keep them from proposing marriage. I would assume all of them are looking for someone to truly love them and understand them, and once they find that they are 100% content, regardless if the other person is their "soul mate".
So to easily answer your question: Before love, cancer men take things slowly. After love, their feet weighted down on the gas pedal. But once again, this is only from one person's experiences.
Good Luck!
2007-03-20 16:30:04
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answered by Honee 1
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