My son tells me this woman has been calling the house all night. She told my son that she is fed up with my "soon to be ex" and wants to talk with me. Then she called my cell phone twice. The second time I answered the call. She called me by name and said "Sorry , I dialed the wrong number. Is she psycho or is it me? How soon would you change your phone number?
2007-03-20 16:08:09 · 27 answers · asked by Rabbit 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce will be final the first week in May!
2007-03-20 16:16:34 · update #1
FYI the thumbs down aren't coming from me. I only give thumbs up!
2007-03-20 17:35:41 · update #2
Don't bother answering her calls at all AND change your phone number ASAP. She is just trying to harrass you. Move on with your new life and enjoy your new freedom. Good luck, girl.
2007-03-20 16:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pookie, you will hear a lot of comment,but this will be up to you. It's not you at all, that wh##e has some issue and don't have self esteem. If you change your cell number,you will prove to your ex to be and to that woman that they won. All you have to do is block her number, ask your provider (the one at home) or to make it simple make your home number unlisted, and to your cell phone,you will see if its her, just don't answer it.
I will tell you about mine, last Dec. I caught my husband having an affair to this married woman as well,(they met on a christian dating site), if you will think that we have a problem in bed, not!! his the one that doesn't know anything. But to make story short,they were close for 2 straight month, he wants a second chsance,but its too late after 22 long years. His wh##e start calling my house and told me that they love each others,even my cell,but what I did is change my home number but not my cell cause I don't want her to think that she won, even my SOB husband don't want anything to do with her now cause he got caught. My life and my kids life are better now,even their father keeps on asking to come back.
So if I were you,I will not do anything,don't let that woman win,ignore her,and one day god will punish those people that committ adultery..........
2007-03-21 08:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to begin with -always maintain your calm.even if your ruffled inside don't show it. now it depends whether you are interested in talking out the situation with her. if you don't want to talk to her(which seems like it) ,then simply hang up on her.why should you change your house number?next time say ''god bless you'' and put the phone down. don't ever get angry or mad at her or you'll be put under bad light. so don't stress over this . its just simple keep hanging up.and if she's calling on your cell,get a guy friend of yours (any guy -could be your uncle too)to pick up and make her sound silly.
just incase she gets out of hand you can always report to cops. that should do it ! ` cheers
2007-03-20 23:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is sussing you out - big time
dont answer her calls - period
tell your son not to answer the phone -
she sounds like she is stalking you - get an order out on her
asap
and yes she sounds psycho - change all phone numbers
better to be safe than sorry
good luck - and leave the man
2007-03-20 23:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
we had same situation in our family, my father's mistress was calling and giving hard time to my mom, at first it worked my mom get mad but she didn't pay attention to it any more and after 2 or 3 weeks she didn't call any more and my parents still living together. Be strong and just follow your daily life.
2007-03-21 00:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by v.m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change home and cell as soon as you can. This woman has no right or good intentions talking to your son.
2007-03-20 23:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's just now finding out what a nit-wit he is and wants to compare notes! lol
I'd talk to her and giggle when she has the same problems you had with him, who knows, you might end up great friends.
On the other hand, if she won't talk, she might be psycho, now that I think about it, more women are psycho than normal.
Change your number!
2007-03-20 23:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
y being afraid of her? the world...is not as simple as u think so face it. y changing ur no.? u r showing her how coward u r and this prob wont end up here, she might trace ur no. again and wat will u do then? again go in for a new no.? stop fooling around urself, simply face her, she cant harm u, let her speak and learn wat is it there in her mind and then u decide and say ur words which can b the final ones. all the best.
2007-03-21 01:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by nice_lady559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't change my number, you have caller id, just don't answer the phone. Sounds like she wants you to take him back......
2007-03-20 23:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt change it.....I would listen to what she had to say.
Use the info u get in court against his sorry fanny.
Be smart hunney, anything is good at this point.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 23:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋