think he cheated on me but i don't know...?

Question

We where on a "break" and i said please just hold off on doing anything with someone else untill we figure things out, and we both agreed we would...

So in the meantime of figure things out we go back together, but i havent seen him yet.

The next day before i come over, he tells me on the phone and i quote "Cindy left a mark when she attacked me friday" (that day was monday)

and of couse i explode, i go over ready for a fight and he explains that they were flirting and she misunderstood something he said and gave him a hicky.

after a 4 hour talk, i feel like i can trust what he said.

Being furious about the situation i sent this b*tch who did it a message on facebook with words that you cant use on here and he called ME a *****!! and said she didnt deserve it!

Now im back in the situation as a few days ago and i dont know what to doo..

(sorry its long btw...) but any imput would help...

Answer 1

this is giving to much problem to you.
you should move on better..
fcuk them hunny.
good luck.

Answer 2

I gotta agree with most of the others responses. Move on. Life is too short to waste time worrying about someone who calls you a @$^&$^& and then needs four hours to smooth it out. That is no way to start off a realtaionship even a rekindleing of an old one, it most likely won't get better.

Good luck!

Answer 3

ok, so you were on break and he did what he wanted to do, it should be none of your business what he does with his personal life as long as its understood by both people that you are on BREAK, and how could you even concieve to ask him to put his life on hold while you try and figure things out? why should he have to put things on hold and stop living his life because you are confused? if you asked him to do that then you were intent on going back with him and therefore you shouldn't have even taken a break, but since you took a break then all bets are off and all is fair

i would have never even agreed to that, if you want a break then fine, we take a break, if you decide eventually that you want to come back then we will see if i am even available, no one should be forced to put their life on hold for anyone elses benefit

Answer 4

agreeing with the first answer - but also wanna add - if you think he did, he did. he talked you out of believing it - but it took him four hours - believe your first instinct - especially if he defends her! WRONG thing to do if you want your girl back!
he's not telling the whole truth - and you, my dear, deserve the best and need to move on.
Take it from someone who's been there AND done that!!
Good luck!!

Answer 5

He is definately not worth ur time! It's not an accident when someone gets a hicky! Thats enough sucking time to understand that it is wrong! Get rid of him, u deserve better!

Answer 6

move on, dump the loser, he obviously didnt show you any respect by hooking up with someone else.... she didnt misunderstand anything, he wanted some action... you should not have sent her a message, you should have just told your man to get lost.... you dont deserve to be treated the way he treated you

Answer 7

Sorry Hun but your man was lying to you. If he promised that nothing was going to happen and if he was a real man then he would not have that hickey.

Answer 8

is you life and you have to make you choice,,but I'll say don't waste you time with a man who promise you to wait and go sleep with other woman,,beside if he cheap once he will cheap again to you or whoever he lives with,,,

Answer 9

wow.. sounds like he lied and he has disrespected you two times....the other woman..isnt her fault..

I would call im on it..tell him what happened, how you feel, and what you think....

Tell him IF he wants to make it work..he should follow the rules that YOU BOTH agreed to....

Answer 10

well, it sounds like you two need to stay apart and grow up....