Okay. I admit it. I had sex when I was 12 and now I'm pregnant. I don't want to tell anyone, but by the end of the year I will probably be getting long contractions and giving birth. Some people say that I'm getting really fat and should lay off the junk food, but I haven't had almost any sugar in the past month! Please help me.
2007-03-20 15:59:45 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well u need to tell your mom or another adult because it is very inportant for your baby to get prenantal care. Like doc apts. And if u are preg then you will Defently be having contractions and giving birth. Please tell someone so u can see a doctor you are eventually gonna have it and they will know then.
2007-03-20 16:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i just cant imagine the stress and hardships that ur going thru right now girl.. but i do admire the courage that you showed by going thru with the pregnancy. I must admit that if I were in your position i would have opted to get rid of the baby.. which i think a lot would understand. I wish you would tell your parents though because I tell you giving birth is noooooooottt easy. its really very hard and you need all the moral and financial support that you can get.
I know it will be very hard to do so but it will be for the best. I hope that you will have the same courage to face it, same courage that you showed when you decided to get on with the pregnancy..
Good luck and hope that everything will work for the best....
2007-03-20 16:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by debzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Your pretty young for your age to get Pregnant at this time. I will try to help you.
Well first of all,someone is going to notice that you are probily are pregnant,the first one would probily be your Parents, so if you keep that secert intill the LAST minite,like making ecuses saying"I'm just gaining wight", then lets say today is the birth,you have to go to the Hospital, and your with your Parents at that time and you say"I'm Pregnant and I need to go to the Hospital".,chances are your parents are going to get really mad at you for not telling them,out of my oppion I think you should tell them right away. If not then your probily going to end up with an argument first and it wont be pretty. Suriously.
Secoundly you don't want to have ANY Junk Food or even things that are high in sugar(like soda etc.). To have a Healthy child you should give it Fresh Fruit,Healty Foods.
Thrid you need to go to a Doctor and get check out at regular days. Thoe I think you would need your Parents signature in order to get the speacil treatment.
Fourth there is alot of responsibilty to having a child you could consider giving it up for adoption so it could get the things it needs more in life.
Fifth your probily still in school and you don't want to let your education go because if you do then you will never get a good job that gives you good pay to support your child.
Sixth you may or may not but get your Parents,Friends,even the guy that got you pregnat, to help you because I can assure you that you are going to need all the Help you can get!
"Remeber when you have a Child, there is alot of Resposibilty, that comes into play."
2007-03-20 18:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As if it wasn't bad anough that you started having sex at 12, now you have gone and probably flushed your senior year down the toilet. I think your best choice would be to get on prenatal vits. Get to a dr for regular appts. Tell your parents and the father of the baby. Face the music and seriously think about giving this baby up for adoption. If you aren't mature enough to think of this baby first and forget about what people are going to say then you for sure aren't mature enough to care for a baby. My sister-in-law turned 18 the day she got pregnant. Her boyfriend was going to marry her until they fought so much 1 month before the wedding last fall they broke up and she left the US and came back home just to find out that she was pregnant with their second baby. She never finished high school and hasn't had a job since just after she got pregnant with her first. She left him to give birth to her first here and she is doing the same again this time. She had to go on welfare the first time and is doing it again but staying on longer this time since she will have 2 under 2 1/2 years when her second baby is born this spring.
I love my sister-in-law as much as I love my own sister, but do you really want this to be your life. Soo many single parents wind up on welfare and don't have the desire to get off it.
2007-03-20 16:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way around it. You're going to get big if you're pregnant sugar or no sugar. You need to tell your parents now. You need proper medical care especially being that you're so young. From now on please use a condom or some other form of contraception. Actually you shouldnt be having sex at all if you're only 12 but if you're gonna do it, be safe and use some form of birth control. Kids shouldnt be having kids when they're 12. It sounds like you're keeping the baby and I'm glad you're doing that but don't have any more until you're much much older and more able to handle a baby.
2007-03-20 16:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my god just 2 years ago you were 10- years old. You teen moms are just getting younger and younger. Please talk to your parents or some over the age of 18 years that would be able to guide you threw this pregnancy, and hopefully you know who the dad is and I hope he is around and not younger than you. I know this will sound wrong but I hope he is either older than 16years of age or 18 years of age because one of you need to have a job because at twelve years old you no one will hire you for employment. I just wish you the best and lots of luck and may god show you the way a let you be safe. Good Luck & Conglaradulation!
2007-03-20 18:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing having sex at twelve year of age, and if you we're my child I would beat the hell of out you and send you straight to have an abortion.
You don't even have a high school diploma or can't even get a job. What are you going to do. You can't get any welfare help cause your under age. Are you ready to raise this baby.
Where is the father and how old is he?
Young girls like you don't know anything about caring, raising a baby. And most of the time the baby end up abuse or dead.
If I was you I would leave it up for adoption.
You might know what it is to be loved by someone. But not to be a mother at age of twelve. This is a very nasty responded to you and I know it but I'm sorry If I offened you, young girls like you pisses me off.
Cause this baby has a 90 % of suffering without any adults support for both of you.
2007-03-20 16:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh girl, why would you have sex at 12? It is so difficult having a baby at that age. You will need so much support from everyone around you, including your parents, so try telling them first. You should take a pregnancy test though, in case you haven't. Then there you will have to make a desicion, one that you won't regret. So, please think about it carefully, have your parents involved they may know what is best for you. I wish you the best of luck and may God bless.
2007-03-20 16:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
12 and pregnant is no fun at all. You are still very young. But, if you are going to have this baby you need to stop being silly. You need to eat right and there is no way to hide the pregnancy forever. What do you think you are going to do once this baby is born? You can not hide it then. Your family will be disappointed at first but they will start to accept it and give you the support that you deserve.
Please tell them...Its not healthy to hide it and not take care of yourself.
2007-03-20 16:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you don't want to tell anyone but if you don't you are putting your life and the life of your baby in trouble. You should go to the local Planned Parenthood or a local clinic and get guidance. You need to talk to someone. You cannot do this alone. You are twelve and you have your whole life ahead of you. Please take care of yourself and your body. Even if you don't keep the baby, it still is a life and right now it is your responsibility to make sure that it is ok. I know that you are scared, but if you go talk to someone they will be able to help you and help you make sense of things. Please take this advice to heart and don't ignore it.
2007-03-20 16:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by beautifulstranger013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋