I have a great wife, but since she got pregnant for the first time, our bedroom life has declined. As she gets bigger, we are not even sure how to do it. Any suggestions.
2007-03-20 15:22:48 · 15 answers · asked by hey you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it is safe to have sex up until like 8 or nine months of pregnancy... It may be better for her to be on top though or on her side during this as her stomach gets bigger. make sure she is very wet as well so it does not hurt her. Ask her doctor she is seeing about this as well and see what advice the have to offer for you. Doggy style may work or even have her sit on your lap or even maybe standing up. Hope this helps some. her sexual interest may start to dwindle as her hormones and body are changing and she may lose interest and not be as much into it as well. Just love her through this stage and be there for her no matter what.
2007-03-20 15:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
U could have sex any way it goes. I just had a baby 4 months ago and it seems to like if i had more sex when i was pregnant than i do now. we use to have sex all the time let her ride u if she feels pain u ride her just try not to put presure on the baby. or do it doggy style she doesnt have to bend all the way down. u shouldnt be truggling pregnant sex is the best a woman can ever have because there hormones r so high. u better go home and work her trust me and its also good for the baby.
2007-03-20 15:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by anna_r_3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... No. the baby hasn't long previous with the aid of puberty and had her era (in basic terms ladies can get pregnant) and don't pay attention to the guy who mentioned placed on 2 condoms, that motives friction which will lead them to ruin. Having intercourse while you're pregnant is large, it does not relatively result the baby in any respect because of the fact no count how huge a penis is, it won't attain the uterus (the place the baby is is).
2016-10-19 05:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite natural for first time mothers to not want to have sex.....they want to do everything right and dont want to take the chance of harming the baby in any way. The baby is pretty secure in the womb, and having sex wont do the baby any harm, but in saying that, you have to be a bit more sensitive and more gentle with lovemaking.
The only way to have sex, now that she is big, would be comfortable for her would be from the rear (doggie style)
Hope this helped
2007-03-20 15:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say ask your doctor for 1.
My advice is if you and your wife make love, try positions that will not be to straining for her, like on your sides if possible, or her on top sitting. You can do it with her laying on her back, but you have to be careful because for a pregnant woman to be laying on her back for too long like that, can cause problems.
Hope that this helps, and congrats on the expectant baby.
2007-03-20 15:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I still had sex within three days of our baby being born. You don't really have to make many adjustments until she really starts getting big.
I'm sure you can figure it out.
2007-03-20 16:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much any way but missionary and you should be fine. She just shouldn't have any pressure on her stomach once she gets to the point where she's showing.
2007-03-20 15:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doggie style is fun but you can also try the kitchen table it works too
2007-03-20 15:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by miester44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both on your side with her back toward your front. Good luck. And btw, she may have diminished desire due to hormal changes.
2007-03-20 15:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by katydid 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Doggy style all the way, just don't lay on her.
2007-03-20 15:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋