i'm involved in this relationship with this couple. both of them are in a relationship with each other. i'm sort of the third person in the relationship. both of them like me A LOT. they even tell me that they want long term relationship with me. we have threesome sex all the time. what should i do? i like them both. should i stay or stay out of this confusing relation. FYI we are gay, both of them are top and i'm bottom. so i'm sorta the "butt" of the family. please help me...HELP
2007-03-20 15:03:10 · 4 answers · asked by confused and loving it 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hmm. From the tone of your question, I kind of sense that you are more concerned with what other people think of you, not whether you are happy or not. If you are happy, and enjoy being with them, it doesn't matter what other people think. There are always closed-minded individuals no matter where you go, and they aren't living your life, they have nothing to say about it.
2007-03-20 15:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called "polyamory", the desire, practice, or acceptance of having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved. Polyamorous perspectives differ from monogamous perspectives, in that they respect a partner's wish to have second or further meaningful relationships and to accommodate these alongside their existing relationships.
2007-03-21 06:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you currently like the position your in if you enjoy each others company and everyone enjoys it why change a good thing why run if your finding good loving
2007-03-20 15:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by peter w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it works for all of you --go for it.
2007-03-20 16:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋