FOr guys i can understand...but what about us girls? I saw pictures and movies and i looks and sounds PAINFUL for ladies. Even if it isnt there first time. And if its ANYTHING like putting in a tampon its deff. not good. so whats up with it?! I looks sick actually!
2007-03-20 14:56:00 · 11 answers · asked by mia d 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hon, In no way am i telling you to have sex. BUT once you get married, it won't be bad. Trust me. The first time it's sore. You'll probably tear, be embarresed and feel SOOO awkward. But if it's with that special guy you won't care. You'll find someone who knows how to treat you just right and you'll forget all about this post!
2007-03-20 17:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, quite.
I do not know where the word pleasure even comes into context.
And I'm a proud virgin at 13, thank you very much.
For girls, it is emotionally and physically painful (for the physical part, excess thrust and teasing, in terms of spanking and such).
For me, when I ever have sex (later in my life), it will be emotionally painful for me since I fear that something bad could happen.
2007-03-20 15:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need an anatomy lesson. Go look up the word "clitoris", but look it up in a proper book like a dictionary or (better yet) a medical encyclopedia, otherwise you'll probably just get links to a lot of porn sites.
I'm going to get a lot of thumbs downs for this. Hey, I'm just being honest!
2007-03-20 19:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not painful for women or men. Some people like to be painful and that when the "naughty" stuff comes in but most people arent into that.
Men and Women have orgasms and thats where the pleasure part comes in. Dont try to have one, most women don't experience them until they are older in their 20's.
But its not about the pleasure, its about the love and thats the pleasurable part. ;)
2007-03-20 17:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by pinkmalibu442 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if your in your younger years/teenager but what makes you think wearing a tampon is not good? Sex is pleasurable, why would so many people do it if it wasn't?
2007-03-20 18:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kat™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand one thing, the movies yu watch is there for them to make money. You are young and your duty to lay a solid foundation for your future through education. Getting involved in sex can ruin all of that. So wait till you get married. Sex is over rated in this country.
2007-03-20 15:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by "Vallamkali" 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
keep on thinking that way. one of these days you will understand but don't rush it along any guys are nothing but trouble to a young girl
2007-03-20 15:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by carrol d 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I like the pain.
2007-03-20 14:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by Girly Q 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better try it. i'm still a virgin but they say it's very satisfying... just imagine someone licking on your vagina! whoa.. that is freezing...
Well, if you're afraid, you can masturbate, just put your vagina at the edge of a table and go sex with the table...
2007-03-20 18:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not painful at all. it feels plesurable and I love to do it with my fiancee.
2007-03-20 15:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by Martin A Neville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋