I'm confused. I'm starting a relationship now, that's been about 3 weeks, with a pal I had in middle school. The thing is, she's a lebian & I'm orginally straight. At first I thought my heart was telling me I had feelings. I'm wondering now if it's my hormones. At times I feel love and other I feel friend. The only other real relationship I had was w/ my ex that was a he and it was non-sexual, but love & care. My mind said from the start that I was nuts. Now I'm wondering if my heart has a qustion mark joining. I know she loves me. B4 we were a couple I had feelings for her but didn't really know it. What should I do? Is it sorta normal since I'm naturally straight? I will say she's basically a man in a woman's body? What's happening?
2007-03-20 14:50:24 · 4 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Boy this is nuts! No one is an expert. Everyone has to go through all these crazy mixed up feelings, and still don't know anything! You have to just wade through it and figure it out as you go! Good luck! This is even too exhausting to read!
2007-03-20 14:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi u need to start reading books on love n hatered.U are confused since yr head n heart do not go together. The answer is within u itself.Pl look to the lives of others who are successful .
2007-03-20 22:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you both like it and are loyal to each other why ruin it go with it are you happy with it if you are im happy for you im not going to hold you back and im not going to tell you no if your both happy you tried with your ex as hard as you knew and there your ex for a reason but if they git arround and your more of a one person stop the loving now other than that use rubber whenever possible or somekinda barrier to make what your doing a little safer and if it never works out it was just a lesson and hopefully you can learn from that
2007-03-20 22:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by peter w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say go with your heart! You can't help who you fall in love with, it's the person not the gender..... Step outside the box!!!
2007-03-20 21:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by signaltree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋