Does this mean I can go ahead and get some STRANGE on the side? Just like all you women do when you use this crap line?
2007-03-20 14:36:35 · 17 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love strange but not in love with it, sure why not
2007-03-20 19:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is not all lovey dovey till death do you part. If you sleep with another woman you're an adulterer. It's as simple as that.
So you're not in love with her anymore. Well bully for you. Perhaps you are confusing love with lust. Perhaps you need to look within yourself and find out why you feel the way you do.
Perhaps you just need to grow up and get a life and learn that marriage is not just about you.
Get off your backside and do something for your wife. Get off your backside and start putting into your marriage instead of taking. Then maybe just maybe you'll find the spark again and put the fire back into your marriage.
2007-03-20 14:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by scruff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding, right? You would not be considering such a thing if you really loved your wife. If you are not "in love" why stayed married? Don't lie or keep secrets. If you believe there are some women who do this, don't sink to their level. You love your mom, sister, friends, but you are not "in love" with them. If you are not "in love" with your wife, be respectful. You should work on making your relationship better or get out of it.
2007-03-20 14:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU are married for life..sounds like you 2 need a get away...you need to find out what and why you fell in love with your wife in the 1st place...cheating is wrong and immorallll....
and no not all women cheat on thier husbands....
2007-03-20 14:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Keli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man once told me that even if you wanna cheat and the woman is right there in front of you but all you can think of is your wife then you are in love with her. try spicing up your sex life then your other head wont want to wander so much. chances are shes just as bored! when is the last time you satisfied her?
2007-03-20 15:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by sharebear80817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling and find out why "your not in love with her" . Then tell her the truth. Don't lead her on , by pretending everything is ok. Don't cheat on her and give her some disease because you choose to be selfish. Be a man and take responsibility in your actions, who knows maybe she's sick of your ****. also.
2007-03-20 14:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by spanishfly9582 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're right it is a crap line. I get so sick of hearing this. How can someone say that they love someone, but then try to find an excuse to do something that would obviously hurt the person they supposedly love. So if you are thinking about it, you DON'T love her so go do it. You have one stranger's permission if that's what you needed.
2007-03-20 14:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by PhantomRN 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think you are just looking for an excuse to cheat and looking for approval to do so. If this is the way you feel, divorce her, give her , her freedom and i will bet she will have more fun than you. Ha!
2007-03-20 15:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by shyone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably upset because your wife just fed YOUR @ss that line! LOL
I wouldn't be surprised!
2007-03-20 14:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Hester 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that makes a lot of sense
gee you having a brain strain there Joe???
and you wonder why your wife is giving you hints
2007-03-20 14:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋