ok i am 14 and i just came out at school. (i have not told my mom yet) and the way i came out was by telling the guy i like that i like him. and i thought that once he knew he would be a *** to me and i would stop likeing him. and that is what i wanted to happen. but that is not what happened. after i told him i see him looking at me in the halls and looking at me in class and idk if he is gay or Bi or stright. but i want to tell him to stop it and to stop looking at me but i dont want to be a jerk or anything. i also what to stop likeing him i have been trying to figger out how to stop liking this kid like all year but i cant and i cant deal with liking him when i know i will never get him. look i geuss what i am trying to ask is....do any of u know a way to stoping liking someone that u can never stop thinking of? and is there away to tell him to stop looking at me with out sounding like a jerk?
2007-03-20 14:14:35 · 2 answers · asked by taylor b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Man at 14 you are already having relationship problems I would say that you are only 14 and as long as he is only looking what does it matter. The best way to get him out of your mind is to find someone else or something else to think about.
2007-03-21 08:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Wanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he does like you. If he doesn't, it will help getting over him. If he does, whats so wrong with him? Why don't you want him? If there is nothing wrong with, start a relationship. Don't try to silence your heart, it will only lead to more pain.
2007-03-24 02:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by guy_of_normalcy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋