one of my really good friends always gets in trouble almost everyday she's in detention or AEP. She switchs her bf all the time and she's fearless. She's already had sex and is already moving on to a new guy and they plan on having sex and there not even dating. She's only a freshman like me and when she has sex with guys she doesn't make them wear protection which makes everything even worse. She thinks she's big and bad and she's about 4 foot 9 and anyone can beat her up which she doesn't relieze....how do i tell her that she could get pregnant or some girl could beat her up for messing with their boyfriends without getting her mad at me?
2007-03-20 14:12:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the girl needs help. i think the problem is a self-esteem issue...she pretends to be big and bad and to sleep around to make herself feel better...but she's obviously going about the wrong way to do it...i would consider talking to an adult to get her some counseling.
2007-03-20 14:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jaden's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You try talking to her. And when she ignores you or tells you to butt out of her life you recognise that people are free to make their own mistakes - and usually do.
You can't live someone elses life for them. And most people don't really like to be told on how they should live their life either. It sucks, but thats the world. Just talk to her, and be there for her if it does turn really bad for her. Thats all any of us can really ever do.
2007-03-20 21:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by deucelow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't feel lovable or worthwhile or valuable at all. Her behavior is self destructive and she knows that at some level. Try telling her she is worth more than her behavior indicates. She needs more help than a friend can give.
2007-03-20 21:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg thats horrible...=[ tell her the truth be like.. listen i dont want you to take this the wrong way but like..ur my best friend and i dont want you to get hurt cuz one day something is gonna happen and i cant stand up for u..you no that i would stuff...like that.. try to make it nice..
2007-03-20 21:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by BrEbRe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋