okay well i have this best friend and hes a guy(every gurl has to have one) and i kinda have feeling for him. we walked home today and we were holding hand then he told me that he liked me but that it would wreak our friendship. i have boyfriend and i think i really like/love him ... we have been together going on 2 months and hes really sweet. the only problem is that we go to different school and me and my best friend dont. i have not kissed my best friend and thats how it should stay ...... i think .. i am torn between two and dont know what to do! please help me out !
myra
2007-03-20 14:06:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't date either one. Seriously.
Here's why: you have a great friendship with one guy, but that's not enough for you to say "great, I'm gonna date this guy." You also have a boyfriend, and I'll bet you find him attractive, but that's not enough for you to say "great, I'm gonna date this guy exclusively." So NEITHER guy is good enough to satisfy you.
Your better bet is to find someone who acts like your friend, but looks like your boyfriend. THAT is the person you want to date.
2007-03-20 14:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by big_bowl_of_meat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that
Well my advice to u when it comes to your friend, dont ruin the friendship in some occasions even when friends date the friendship doesnt get ruined but in others they do, I personally think I would want someone like that to stick around for a very long time, you know through out all your school years and so on ( u know , great guy advice, a shoulder to cry on, etc.., trust me if you would ever want to sart a relationship with him do it after High School things change also as your mentality , and then things maybe better as adults (less immature at times)
When it comes to ur boyfriend, its ok that he doesnt go to school, sometimes its better that way less distraction from school and less drauma, and look on the more brighter side when u see him u will treasure those moments more becuase you dont see him as often and so u wont get so bored of him to fast, just take things slow sweetie dont rush into things u have all ur life to find right guy!
But one thing keep ur friendship, its very hard to find good friends now in days!
2007-03-20 21:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Romance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one but yourself can decide which one is the better guy. Use your head, not your heart, that is all I can advise you.
2007-03-20 21:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋