Ok so my best friend heard that some girl wanted to fight her so she asked around and found out that it is two girls. One in her 4th hour and the other in her 5th. She takes taekwondo but she is still worried. She says a green belt is not good enough to hold her own with these girls. i would back her up if i could, but we do not have 4th or 5th hour together so i cant help at all.
She has had this problem before, but the girls threatening her before were all talk, these girls are not afraid to hit her straight in the face and be suspended for it.
What do you think she should do? What advice should I give her?
2007-03-20 13:48:10 · 11 answers · asked by schs_gurrl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, don't get involved in fighting.
Obviously these two girls, are childish enough to think that fighting will accomplish anything. It will just turn into a circle and continue on and on until someone else steps in.
I think you should tell your friend to go to a councilor, and tell them she is being threatened, by these two girls. If that doesn't help - go to the vice principle, and on and on until something is worked out. It also can become a matter of police, if it's something that continues - Just be sure to tell her to find help by an adult before she gets hurt. IF they do hit her etc. before she can get help, make sure she gets the medical attention she needs and then take it up with the police. NO ONE should be in fear of going to school or walking around in public.
Fighting isn't the answer, take on a more adult stand - get her help before anything happens.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 14:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all fighting is never the answer so first thing in the morning your friend needs to go to the principals office or counselors office and tell them about her situation they can either have the girls come in and have them talk it out about why they want to fight or your friend can do her work in the office for a few days. tell her to tell them that they have been picking on her and that she dosent want to get into a fight so she's trying to do something about it now before it gets out of hand. Maybe its all a big misunderstanding that she needs to talk out with these girls. i hope everything works out for her.
2007-03-20 21:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since both girls afre in different classes at the time so it would be hard to jump her. and i know that sometimes school authority can be ridiculously useless. so since she's going to get suspened after the 4th hour fight, the 5th hour fight won't happen. if they try to jump her after school, she should not fight them. if they do jump her, however, you should jump in. BEWARE OF WEAPONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i don't want to promote violence, so go to the principal first, so if the fights DO happen, you will be able to say i DID talk to the authority first. do you have police at school? if yes, get them to stand near you, not too close, during the day.
2007-03-20 21:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Arielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to deal with bullies??? Bullies love making people afraid of them, that is what they thrive on and that is what makes them feel all big, bad and tough (Used to be a bully). My advise would be, don't give in and don't show fear. Tell them " you want to bring it? I'm ready, bring it if you think you have what it takes". If she acts like she can take them, they might have second thoughts about fighting her. Just my suggestion. I wish her luck!
2007-03-20 20:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the principal first thing in the morning..
this is terrible..girls fighting girls!!
there's too much pain anger & hurt in the world.
tell her to go to her teachers and principal.
the other girls should be suspended and their parents should be called in.
you are in school to learn..
not to fight.
2007-03-20 20:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a couple of guy friends to help you and her out. I'm sure they would be happy to help.
2007-03-20 21:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Gabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT LET THEM GET THE FIRST FIT JUST WALK UP AND HIT THEM IN THE FACE FIRST.IF YOU GET THE FIRST HIT IN IT WILL TAKE SOME OF THE FIGHT OUT OF THEM.AFTER SHE FITS THEM DONT STOP KEEP HITTING THEM UNTIL YOU KNOW THEY DONT WANT ANY MORE.
2007-03-20 20:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Leo M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they have done this did she go to the prince able and the school concealer?
2007-03-20 20:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a couple of guy friends...
2007-03-20 20:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight hard and don't get hurt.
2007-03-20 20:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋