this guy who used to be my friend after this incident is still after me for the last 4 days. i havent talked to him directly but he still wants to fight me after I pushed during a hockey game.I was protecting me goalie, then he got mad and wanted to fight. I walked away and he kicked me and cursed me out but I just walked away. I was acting a little bit too emtional during the game because I heard my grandma died and my one month vaction had to be cut off for financial reasons. He cant leave me alone, he talks trash about me ever since. we be friends for 4 years and he punched me in the face for pushing during a hockey game. he also tried to get my friends against me. He's trying to get me to play hockey again but I know for sure he wants to beat me up. am I wrong for not applogizing and have not part with him at all until he apolgizes. am I wrong at all from walking from the fight.
thanks in advance
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2007-03-20 13:28:00 · 14 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
were both 15 by the way
2007-03-20 13:31:13 · update #1
You should maybe apologize first or talk to him...maybe he has family issues himself and needs to vent it out on somebody.
2007-03-20 13:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing it all right.
Hockey, like any sport, is competitive with lots of pushing, whacking and all kinds of physical contact between teams and players, but at the end of the night, they all go have a beer together. Perhaps you shot him one good block and, due to high emotions re: your grandmother, etc. you (unintentionally) were more aggressive than necessary. You may want to ask if that was the "jump off" and try to clarify the action and if warranted apologize, but for real, it sounds like a little ego-bruise to me. Maybe he's just tripping.
At any rate, it's best you walked away from a fight. Obviously, you consider this person your friend and want to get past it. Try to talk to him. If he's still on "revenge play" stay away.
2007-03-28 11:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by lioness_oh_yes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to separate what happens on the field or ice from real life.
If you had a chance to explain about your grandma and he still insists on being aggressive toward you then you have reason for concern.
Bullies are always looking for excuses to fight.
Do not be afraid to involve teachers , coaches or family if necessary.
Too often these situations get out of control.
My adult boyfriend was threaten by a guy who use to live in or building.
Without hesitation he filed a report with the local police department.
If anything should happen where he needs to either defend himself or gets jumped unexpectedly there is a report on file.
It will make for a stronger case.
Good luck
2007-03-27 18:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by makeda m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walking away is the manly way to handle it, fighting is for losers, (except during Hockey of course!! ) anyways, sorry to hear about your grammie, and there will always be other vacations for you. Is this the kind of friend you want anyways...don't think so...
2007-03-28 11:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is all because of contact during a hockey game then perhaps he needs to rethink playing hockey. obviously he can't take it and he should realize you weren't your usual self.
next time you see him act normal, say hello and move on. its hard when your friends start acting like goofs, but it happens and sadly it happens at 15 - 25- 30 and on and on.
meanwhile sorry to hear you lost your Gran.
2007-03-22 03:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your feet on the ground....
Guys dont talk that way...You dont need to apologize..Its all in the game...Hockey is a contact sport... Just let him tire out with words...If your friends are true to you then they wont listen to him...tell your side to your close friends only. They will understand...Guys like that are the sissy type coz he uses words to ruin you...keep your stand and be more like the man you are now..
hope I helped^^
2007-03-28 10:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by 分類される 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in hockey that's to be expected. But just to cool things down you can talk to him and apologize. Sorry about your grandma and your vacation.
2007-03-20 20:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself again whether this guy was ever a friend and then what kind of friendship can you have with someone who wants to beat your a**? I don't know about this situation!
2007-03-28 18:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by forlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he punched you,you could have striked him back!but whats the point,HES Just jealous of you,you probly get more looks from the girls watching yous play hockey and it pisses him off!
2007-03-28 10:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through a similar situation and i have not apologized. i think that our so called "friends" need to get their heads in order and apologize to us. ur were right the whole time. :)
2007-03-28 16:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by devil_rose92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋