Mentally and physically.
2007-03-20 13:19:42 · 3 answers · asked by chuan99 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Most importantly, take your time. Don't rush anything. To put her in the mood try a nice meal, candles, bubble bath, massage, and then lots of foreplay. Spoil her
2007-03-20 16:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by skip22h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm I like the last answer the jewerly one thats good... LOL... anyways.. mentally would of course depend on what the women is excited by.... could be totally different for everyone... here is physically... hopefully your over 18 .. reading this.. this was a question asked by a women who her husband told her he could feel her having orgasms.... and she said she didnt feel anything... here was the advice I gave to her:
OK---NO your not having an orgasm if you have not felt anything... he is just feeling your vaginal muscles contact (kegal exercises help strength these muscles).. although.. using them may help increase your chances while... increasing his stimulation also... Most women have a difficult time achieving TRUE orgasms... the most sensative area for you to become stimulated is your clitorous... the most common orgasms occur with clitorous stimulation.. the problem is though that with the normal act of sex... the clit is rarely hit or stimulated esp.. just with the in out movement of sex.. its on the outside and top.. and hardly gets hit.... lots of women can achieve orgasms though by direct stimulation to the clit... THE BEST and most intense orgasms occur though through Gspot stimulation.. the Gspot is located directly inside your vaginal on the top wall .. if you put your finger in and feel the vaginal lining you will notice that this feels slightly different than the rest of the membrane lining.. it is somewhat "fleshy" again on the top.. under the pelvic bone.. this can be stimulated most frequently by.. very fast direct stimulation.. again is not always.. stimulated with intercourse... when it is ... it will engorge.. or fill with fluid.... when you are really excited during intercourse.. and feel like you are at the peak... if you push out with all your vaginal muscles and possibly apply pressure to your lower abdomen or top of pelvic bone... you are likely to have a true orgasm... some women feel like they are have to urinate before this occurs... YOU WILL KNOW IT WHEN IT HAPPENS AND SO WILL HE.. again most of the time these areas are not hit.. or are not stimulated long enough for a women to achieve an orgasm.... Although this doesnt mean you havent really really been happy with your sex life...... I dont mean that... BUT YOU WILL KNOW IT>>> and so will he... you will /// can achieve a true orgasm just as men do.. some women even.. have a rush or squirting of vaginal fluids when this occurs... well good luck.. have fun...;-p
2007-03-20 13:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by jane d 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
buy her jewelry.
2007-03-20 13:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by chieromancer 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋