Do you think this is a "test"??? Should I tell her the truth that I want to???
2007-03-20 13:05:55 · 7 answers · asked by donnie b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It could be. But you must be open to communication. Swinging are actually not totally acceptable. Do you want to share your GF to someoneelse? or your GF wanted to share you also to someonelse. Consider this, for a moment of pleasure, the risks involve is so high. There are many communicable diseases that we are not aware of, like aids, hepatitis and tuberculosis.
2007-03-20 13:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by dondatu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would hard to know, without knowing her reasons why. It could very well be a test, but it could also be a sign that she is not happy in the relationship, and wants to find someone better, and then break up with you afterwards, because if she breaks up with you before she has someone to replace you with, then she could find herself not being able to find anyone else, and being alone. I mean, if you go through with it, then you are kind of handing her the ammunition for her to come back and try to say that you wanted the other person more than her, and that you are "unfaithful" to her. Like I said, there is no way to know why she asked, but you might want to make sure you keep your behind covered whatever you decide, just to be safe. Anyway, good luck!
2007-03-20 20:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult question to answer. Is that something you're into and completely willing to try? As it was mentioned before, it might be a test and she may be looking to see where your feelings are for her, then again it may be that she is getting bored and it's her way to see other people with you knowing about it. I suppose I would have to say be careful and go with your gut feeling.
2007-03-20 21:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by mcbobly2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swinging, you mean has sex with her and another guy? If you both are into that well thats your preference. i would ask her if she is serious first and then if you both agree, have fun, but protect yourselves. It may be a test, but I can't see a woman asking that question if she wasn't serious. Take care Heather
2007-03-20 20:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? dump the *****!! She obviously is getting bored and want to try something new with out dumping you or hurting your feelings.. at least, thats what i would be feeling to have asked you that. sorry mate.
2007-03-20 20:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♪♫britt♪♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her bluff say yes worse that can happen is she doesnt and you dont get your way.
2007-03-20 20:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "I've never considered it...why, have you been thinking about it?"
2007-03-20 20:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋