My 40 year old wife likes to look at younger men she says its nothing.
Sheis about 5'8" tall 119 lbs and hard body..I am in my mid 40's and 5'11" 170 lbs hard body.....we both are very happy with our sex with each other. But we have a dentist that is in his late 20's and attractive and I have seen him flirt with her a lil. I teased her about how the younger guys think she is hot and when I mention him to her she cant stop giggling. Im ok with it and am flattered that guys think shes hot...cuz she is...she always comes home with me. I was asking her if it makes here feel good to have guys check her out and she giggled and says yeah espicially when they check out my *** and said she does like to tease and that its fun and a turn on to her. She also said hey im 40 its time to have a lil fun. She says she knows I think she is very attractive and lover her completly..but says its just fun to get attention from the younger guys and that she would never do any thing..What do you all Think?
2007-03-20 12:58:23 · 14 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL my wife just called me all excited and giggly and told me about a guy that just stopped her and flirted with her and teased me about maybe we should become swingers. It is fun to see her get flirted with lol
2007-03-20 13:41:14 · update #1
I will give her one thing....shes honest....lol. Im 53 and I like looking at attractive men of any age....and I certainly like to see them look at me and think Ive still got it....its our ego's and it's great to have it boosted with looks and compliments, but it doesnt mean she is going to go out and do anything with them. Sounds to me like you have a great relationship where she feels comfortable enough to talk to you about anything. She probably believes you are a "together" guy and believes she wouldnt even think of being with another man. I know my man looks at younger women with good bodies, but I know he doesnt want to go sleep with them. I see the look of joy on his face when a younger woman flirts with him.....its purely our ego's....and lets face it, who doesnt want to look attractive.....It's nice to be noticed and if you know she loves you, then allow her to feel good about herself with the attention. You said it yourself, your sex life is great and she always comes home with you....its when that changes will you have a problem. I bet you enjoy being noticed by women, young or old....its good to have an ego, don't let anyone tell you differently, and I guess the older we get, the more we need to feel attractive.....age catches up to all of us soon enough...so allow her to enjoy the attention while she can because it wont always be like that.
2007-03-20 13:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The main reason older women do this is they want to feel younger. Think about it....How many women never tell there exact age or they color there hair to hide the gray most women have a hard time accepting there getting older.
Men age better we accept it we become distinguished. I wonder how your wife would feel if a young girl starting flirting with you? I'm sure some women will say it's BS as there coloring there hair...........
2007-03-20 13:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by miester44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever caught yourself looking at younger ladies? Its really not a biggie....as long as all she is doing is looking and NOT thinking Gezz I wish I could have some of him......you know what I mean. I think that most people if they were honest would say that they have noticed someone who is attractive at some point in there life. Like you said....she always goes home with you and as long as she is not doing anything to give other men the idea that she is available I don't see any real harm in it.
2007-03-20 13:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might be afraid that she is getting old and needs to reassure herself that she is still a catch by seeing if guys will still check her out. Hard body or not she's getting up there in age and there are always beautiful young girls to remind her of that each day.
My mother always told me you can check out the menu--just don't order. If she plays by this rule then all should be safe.
2007-03-20 13:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its harmless flirting. Shes getting older and im sure that of course it feels good to have younger guys checking her out. I know i dont mind it at all.....lol......Its obvious you both are in love with eachother from listening to you talk,,,,and you DONT have a thing to worry about.
2007-03-20 13:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well what wrong in her looking, i sure you look at the young ladys, an women same as men , want to know if they can still get a younger womer are man,,, i dont think you got to worried, she come home with you, married to you,,,an i hope she still got red hot blood,, ,,
2007-03-20 23:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you look at younger women? Nothing is wrong with looking, if thats all that it is. And your wife needes to know that she can still turn heads,it makes us feel good.
2007-03-20 13:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Genia F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-17 17:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought the older you got the more mature you get.Lookes like shes still stuck in her young years...lol i dont see nothing wrong with it,but Age does not matter when is comes to cheating.think about it.
2007-03-20 13:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she might want something with younger men. Tell her if she is gonna do anything with younger guys you get to bang younger women. Get her responce and she how she plays that.. tell her two 40 yr olds can play then.
Maybe you two should start swinging (?).
2007-03-20 13:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋