My boyfriend dumped me because I told him I have been attracted to women in the past, he said he didn't want to get involved with me because we might get serious and then I might realize I'm really a lesbian and leave him. I said I never wanted to take it that far and that I don't want to have sex with another women.
Whos right?
2007-03-20 12:52:22 · 17 answers · asked by Jazz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are. 100% It sounds like your ex is a bit jealous of the power of a woman. Looks like you deserve a stronger man - probably one who is more secure in the fact that a. You won't leave him for a woman and b. That being bisexual could be a positive thing for your relationship.
2007-03-20 13:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Hun it is the year 2007. Allot of things are different now and it seems you have just lost an old fashion boy. He See's things out there and he is ready for a relationship and has no desire to compete with anyone else including another female. Sorry he don't want no part of this type of relationship it seems and he has made that point well. Those type of relationships don't seem to make it except in the movies honey. You may better move on and chalk this one up to experience. Good luck to you and your x.
2007-03-20 13:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by oskkid 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are Just for the simple fact that you where being honest to him . You cant tell me that there isn't woman in hear that watch x movies with there man and don't get turned on .Every one knows that a woman's body is so much easier on the eyes then a mans that's why there are more strip bars with woman dancers rather then men . I think your boyfriend screwed up he will probably marry a nagging woman that puts blinders on him .
2007-03-20 13:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys well they can't take it...and it is a big thing to admit...he may jsut have not been ready for the confession...you may have to give him some time....if not move on...maybe he really liked you thinking it was gonna go far...and let him know u'd like to be with him more than antoher gilr
2016-03-29 09:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are "right" because you both were honest about how you feel. If just telling him this caused a breakup then he's not a good match for you anyways. Maybe date a more openminded, less anal guy next.
2007-03-20 13:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by Gabrielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes insecure obviously. knowing you sought affection from a female in the past may make him worry about how he measures up against someone else. especially if it was a woman
2007-03-20 13:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by heatherclhn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for him to be apprehensive because this situation is probably very new (and therefore scary) to him.
I don't think that he should have made the assumptions that he did about you, and I don't think that his reason for leaving you was justified.
2007-03-20 12:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is. He has a brain. Why the hell would any man want to be with you, except for a three some? That is not a marriage, and girls like that are not marriage material.
2007-03-20 12:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
He is 100% correct. You have issues. I wouldn't want to be involved with you either.
2007-03-20 12:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
He's protecting his heart. He's right. Sorry.
2007-03-20 13:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by sweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋