My friend has been acting very weird and different around me. We used to hangout all the time and laugh at each other's jokes but now it's like she doesn't really care. She has this other friend that she hangs out with at lunch and stuff but she seems to talk to her more. Plus her friend always gives her hugs and stuff but it feels really weird to me when i am around both of them, not to mention that i don't like her other friend but i never told her that. Especially since after my friend got in a car accident that could have killed her, she didn't call me right away but her other friend. I had to call her and hear the bad news than. So I don't know what is going on and why she is acting very different. She will be normal one minute and the next be in kind of a bad mood. What should i do?
2007-03-20 12:49:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the way i look at your situation, it seems like your friend is enjoying her other friends companionship rather than yours. over familiarity might have been the set back of your friend that's why she seeks out other channels of expressing herself thru other people she considered a friend too...
2007-03-20 13:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by tangerine b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anne she might be growing out of being your friend and that is not good. many times you showed that you cared about her and that was when she got into that car reck and almost died. she had no right not to call you first. You have to try to get along with that other girl too so you could all be friends. and if that girl is a mean jerk you should try to make your friend realize that you are a better friend than she will ever be in the whole world.
2007-03-28 03:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by ashfry101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People act different in groups. Now that your friend has sort of changed groups you are not feeling those around her.
That is not going to change. Your friend is probably still cool.
It's just that she is more comfortable with them than you and that is okay we all experience this. Do not take this so personal. Soon those days will be gone and for real you might not even remember their names
2007-03-28 11:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by styles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 06:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having new friends could change the way people act. That's all I can tell you. Only she knows the real reason why she;s acting so different.
2007-03-20 12:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be annoyed with you. I've been on her end of the situation before. One of my "best friends" would follow me everywhere, touch me too much and was just plain annoying. I didn't tell her but I just kind of tried to avoid her to see if she would eventually wear herself away to another "best friend". Ugh I feel bad about it now but maybe that's what she's trying to do.
2007-03-20 12:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me. I just moved on and made new friends because she was ignoring me. Now, I'm totally happy with the new friends I have.
2007-03-26 12:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Crissy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a true friend, she will come around. if not, you deserve better. but don't sit around moping. go out and have fun and make new friends. life is short
2007-03-25 09:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to her about it. If you hold it in it will just make you feel bad.
2007-03-27 15:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her. Find a new friend.
2007-03-28 12:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋