He knows I am adopted and always sks me questions about it. I answer and stuff and today he completely annoyed me. We were learning about how the female goes through pregnancies. So anyway today he screams out. Lisa you were the result of two drunk people with a broken condom. Thats why you were put in adoption. How do I get him to shut up? I don't go around making fun of him, and he has more problems than me. Why doesn't he shut up? What do I do?
2007-03-20 12:42:27 · 33 answers · asked by ♥♫I look after you♥♫ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My teacher left to help the sub next door!
2007-03-20 12:48:25 · update #1
I would tell him that you do not appreciate him discarding your feelings. Tell him this makes you feel uncomfortable and that he should respect your feelings.
Or if that doesn't work you could say....
Well you were the result of two obviously very sorry people that should have tried using a condom.
2007-03-20 12:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
heyy i know how u feel cause i was adopted too. some people just don't get it that we are normal people and we have feelings too. if i was u i would try too ingore him as much as possible. if it gets worst ( i am not trying to act like a teacher but..) go tell a school conceler or teacher cause they can really help, or if u are comfertable with ur adopted parents talk to them about it. what ever u do don't start making fun of him cause that will make it worst. remember adopted kids are very special u should appretiate that. hope this helped!!! good luck
2007-03-20 12:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by trackstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is what we call a heckler, I believe the term today is "Annoying Dweeb". He is looking for a response, Kids like this feed off of the negative energy of others. cut off his supply, do not give him any response at all. If possible, strike up a conversation with someone else and keep it on a totally
different topic. I shouldn't say it, but watch for something really embarrassing or gross that he may do, and call him out on it, point it out to the rest of the class; but do this with out his knowing. All of the talk will be redirected to him.
2007-03-20 12:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Justme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First tell the teacher and the guidence counselor what he said tomorrow! He needs a good talking to by an adult. Tell him he's an *** and adopted doesnt mean drunk people had sex. Tell him not to use words he probably can't even spell and doesn't know the meaning of.Insult him too. Also say "Hey adoption means MY parents PICKED me. Yours just got stuck with an accident called you."
2007-03-20 13:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Educated 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't like you because what he said was way too mean :DRUNK, BROKEN CONDOM" he's just a horrible bully you can't think he likes if he did he wouldn't say such a bad thing about you. you should either beat him up, tell him you don't care that at least you are not like him or just tell someone who can kick him out of that school.
2007-03-20 13:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥{puεrtoяicaи. аиgεl}♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The teacher does nothing about this???? I hate school systems like that. Just agree with him. Eventually it'll be no fun anymore to him. If you have to, make up a story about your biological parents.
I was picked on a lot in school. If I didn't show I was annoyed or anything and that I agreed with them they just eventually gave up. It took me years to realize this but yeah, it really works.
2007-03-20 12:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rae M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It' sounds like this boy's parent WISH they would've put HIM up for adoption!
Just say this to him...... "I'm not sure why I was put up for adoption,but you probably would've ended up on a church doorstep somewhere if your parents knew what an azzhole you would grow up to be!"
But wait for the right moment to deliver this line.Let it be a time where his audience (and yours too!) is likely to be biggest!
He might just shut up after that!
2007-03-20 12:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Danny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would of punched him in the face. But then the smarter thing to do is to tell him to grow up and stop acting like a child! And then ignore him completely. That will drive him insane!!!!!!!!!!!
What a idiot he is.
He must be losing brain cells by the day.
Hopefully he doesn't breed.
2007-03-20 12:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. He's immature and obviously has a lot of growing up to do. If he's gonna make fun of you for something like that just let him know he needs to get a life and quit worrying about yours.
2007-03-20 12:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Midget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did the teacher do anything about it? I'd have someone beat the crap out of him and tell him that there's more where that came from if he doesn't shut up.
2007-03-20 12:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋