IS IT OKAY TO ASK YOU HUSBAND TO HAVE A VESTCOMY?
2007-03-20 12:37:38 · 13 answers · asked by VAIN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband had one but sometimes i feel guilt that I asked him to go thru with it
2007-03-20 12:41:50 · update #1
Heck yeah. I mean especially if you're the one who is carrying the child for darn near a whole year, hormones up and down and skin changing, stretchmarks and all. The least he can do is get snipped. 24 hours and a bag of frozen peas he'll be fine.
2007-03-20 12:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah it's OK!!Even though you both probably made the decision to have kids,YOU carried them.Did he feel guilty for making you be pregnant for 9 months each time?I doubt it.Let the guilt go luv!Fair is fair.
2007-03-20 22:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh yeah! We go through all the pain and sickness of carrying the child and giving birth the least they can do is the little snip snip surgery.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 12:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
individually i do no longer think of her gross revenues ought to belong to all of us guy or woman. As a married couple it is going to belong to the two. Or a desperate upon volume of each and every gross revenues ought to circulate right into a companion and toddlers account to pay for companion and toddlers expenditures. A pre desperate proportion placed into value rate reductions and the soundness stored by utilising each and each. Neither owes his mom and father food or her any area of her gross revenues. i think of he's amazingly selfish and manipulative.
2016-10-02 11:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by antonovich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing that ever happened to me. No more worries about more children.
Don't feel guilty, he could have said NO.
2007-03-21 07:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late to ask this question. The deed's done.
2007-03-20 12:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But have you considered getting your tubes tied???? It should be the male whom decides if he should get the job done.
2007-03-20 15:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Waz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. It is something a lot of couples discuss.
2007-03-20 12:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to ask, doesn't mean he's going to agree to it. Believe me...I've tried!
2007-03-20 14:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by smurfie45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think he would feel guilty asking u to have a tubal
2007-03-20 12:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋