I am 8 months pregnant with his child!
2007-03-20 12:20:18 · 21 answers · asked by maymay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I bet after you have that baby and if you get your shape back and dress up really cute, he will notice. Do you still dress up now? You should if you don't. Maybe he doesn't say it because you just don't try, if you do try- I am sorry and he might just not be the type that pours compliments out.
2007-03-20 12:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with you.. and there is nothing wrong with him.
When you live with a person for a while, you do not tend to notice them or the minor changes they make in their appearance as much as you once did.
If you gain weight slowly, it isn't noticed as much on a daily basis as it would be if he had not seen you for 2 months.
Unfortunately, when carrying a child, we notice all too often how the clothing we are wearing grow a bit tighter and uncomfortable, we feel less attractive sometimes because of our awkward appearance .... but I assure you, you look beautiful, I do not even have to see you to know this.
Just remember that your hormone will not always have you a bit edgy, the extra baby weight will go away after birth, and you will feel more comfortable in your own body again.
Right now, your hubby is probably marveling at how you are able to be uncomfortably pregnant and still take his breath away, even if he doesn't find the words to express it as often as you may need to hear it right now. (Men forget sometimes how to flirt)
Let him know that you feel awkward about your appearance right now, ask him if he feels awkward about how you look, I assure you, he will understand, and reassure that you are beautiful in his eyes always.
2007-03-20 19:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Craptacular Wonderment 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Men think differently than women. I remember when I was visiting my sister and her husband she asked him if he loved her. His answer was "I married you didn't I? I had to explain to him why she was so upset. I bet he had his dad, brothers and other assorted males are telling him not to say anything or you will jump all over him because you are hormonal (men never accept the fact that we could actually be angry with them) I would tell him something like like this " honey you haven't told me I'm pretty in a while and I really need to hear it." If he still doesn't tell you then kick him in the shins. :)
2007-03-20 19:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no certainly not after you get married things change. husbands think they can forget about those things cos if they are married to you they think you should know how they feel about you. but us being woman and being more emotional still need to be told those things. ive been amrried for 5 years and the only good comments i get nowadays is when its my bday, christmas, easter just the special days during the year. well come to think of it i didnt even get a valentines day card this year. dont worry once the baby comes he'll see how wonderful you are for carrying such a bundle of joy for him.good luck with everything :-)
2007-03-20 19:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by jenperera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey its a man thing. When i first got with my man he used to tell me that 10 times a day how sexy i was....but now im lucky if i hear it once a month. Once they get comfortable with someone they figure they dont need to say it anymore. They dont think the same way that we do. Im sure he doesnt think any different of you. Its just the way they are. They cant help it. Maybe you should mention how you are feeling to him and tell him you need to be complimented once in awhile.
2007-03-20 19:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ought to go to the store and get a sexy maternity dress. When my wife wore this one dress (sort of a one piece dress thingy - I don't know whacha call it) and had her long dark hair done up and wore those sexy sunglasses and walked around the house with her tum-tum, she was HOT. I'll always remember that. She was beautiful. It's all in attitude. Prego women are beautiful to their men b/c they are carrying their baby that they made together inside her. I'm telling ya, get some nice dress on and walk around the house sexy like and he is gonna start pawing ya. Or at least he should.
2007-03-20 20:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by bigdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. I think that your husband has gotten into a rut in the everyday life.And now that you are married he is thinking that you know that he thinks you are pretty. Along with the baby on the way I am sure it is just an oversite on his part.
2007-03-20 19:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im confident there is nothing wrong with you, unless you got hit by a truck( just kidding :D) men just are like that sometimes and dont care to notice the one they love as much as they used to when you were just going out
2007-03-20 19:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by pmc21392 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get paranoid. absolutely nothing wrong with you !
in a man's mind the courtship is over. he won you. you married him. why should he tell you that he loves you or that you look pretty etc..........you should already KNOW thats what he thinks !!
talk to him. explain that you feel frumpy (also perfectly normal during pregnancy) and that you need the occasional reassurance that he still finds you beautiful.
2007-03-20 19:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by inkrouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men feel as if they nipped it in the butt when they get married. So all those compliments forget about them. Tell him how your feeling, your most vulnerable now all your hormones. You need a good compliment every once in awhile. Good luck
2007-03-20 19:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋