i have a hus band but our son is gay i dont know what i should do
2007-03-20 12:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
people are just ignorant. if two people love eachother they should be able to get married. im straight but i feel gay people have a right to marriage.
2007-03-20 12:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by melissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to do! Just keep on loving him just as always. People are "pigheaded" about gay marriage because they were not raised properly in the first place. There's nothing wrong with gay marriage. It is very important for parents to teach their children that some people date boy-girl, but some also date girl-girl and boy-boy. This way, the child will not be shocked or confused because it will already be made clear that it is the way some people just are. It helps to create children who will become open-minded adults some day.
2007-03-20 12:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just support your son. Dont listen to any of the loonies here who try to say "Pray to him, he will become straight" that wont happen, so dont believe a word they say. Trust me I know. Im gay and theres no way it can ever be changed, But yeah, just support him, and comfort him. As for the gay marriage thing, dont worry about the people who bash it. Their just rediculous human beings LOL
2007-03-20 12:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by BlondBoy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They deam it sinful and wrong. I dont think there is anything wrong with it at all. I have a lot of gay friends. What if god made adam and adam and eve and eve.
Your son cant change the way he is. Best way is to support him best way you can. Im sure he is finding it harder than you and your husband. Does your husband supportive
2007-03-20 12:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by hinder2angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I find most people that are pigheaded about it are people who are not open to things that are new to them. And I am sorry but it is usually men. They are afraid of change. And what is are political party made up of. mostly men. And mostly puppets.
what should you do? stand behind your son. you are his mother and you will love him no matter what. That is a mothers love. If your husband is being pigheaded. then let him stew by himself. If He tells you you can't support your son, then tell him" don't make me pick sides because you will loose. your choice. "
2007-03-20 12:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
P-FLAG is a great resource for parents and friends of. That would be the first place to go. And it is on the web at:
http://www.pflag.org/
It might be better to leave the notion of gay marriage and glbtiq families for now and get thee to P-FLAG.
2007-03-20 12:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by fluffy not stuffy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think homos have the rite to be as unhappy in relationships
as the rest of us...
2007-03-20 12:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
They are uneducated homophobes!!!
2007-03-20 15:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by signaltree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋