2007-03-20 12:08:02 · 20 answers · asked by Pinka 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Because I don't want them to see me so vulnerable I feel like an open target you know..
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2007-03-20 23:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by mauikittie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is because we are at our most vulnerable... probably gets back to prehistoric times and we're afraid someone will take advantage of our "weakened" state. (crying is not a sign of weakness, btw!)
also we spend so much time putting up a "brave face" to the outside world - showing someone, anyone, how we really feel is scary because you don't know whether they'll by sympathetic or just laugh and walk away.
2007-03-20 19:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by cakefork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are seeing me at one my weakest states and I don't like to show weakness. I mean, I'm not a cold hard b****, but I just don't want anyone to see me crying and feel sorry for me and stuff.
2007-03-20 19:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by soulsogood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it shows a weakness and vulnerability that I don't want people to know I have. I have this great big huge wall built up around me and my emotions and handle everything with great strength and courage. It's very hard to let that down and let someone else see it.
2007-03-20 19:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by ricksgrl2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Hm...i suppose it is because my eyes get bloodshot and my face turns red. Well, that's only if i start breathing to heavily or not enough. And i really don't like the attention of people crowding around me and asking what's wrong.
2007-03-20 19:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they either will have fake sympthy for you or if there your friends you dont want them to feel sorry for you or you dont want to explain why your crying
2007-03-20 19:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by Zoey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because of cultural conditioning.
Tears are a natural part of the body's health. We ought not to have misgivings about shedding them in public -- BUT MOST OF US DO.
2007-03-20 19:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by BlueFeather 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes me cry more... almost like a feeling sorry for myself mode...
2007-03-20 19:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by JustJen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's not a side of me I really show and I don't want people feeling sorry for me.
2007-03-20 19:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they ask what's wrong, and then I feel like I have to go into the whole story, and I just don't want to.
2007-03-20 19:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tigger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋