2007-03-20 11:57:26 · 14 answers · asked by Gabby 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well most of your family isn't all of your family, so you can look to the rest of them for any emotional support that you need
Other than that, this is your child and you will be the raising it, so do the best that you can
2007-03-20 12:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't need your family's support. It's your body, your life, and most importantly its YOUR BABY! There are way too many places and organizations out there that will help you to provide for you and your child. So if your family wants to set you aside simply because you are bringing a precious life into this world, then so be it. But in most cases, mean ol' family members that gripe and complain about you when you become pregnant, will just melt when they come face to face with that little angel. And the ones who don't, don't deserve to be apart of it anyways. Just remember, no matter how much it may feel like you are on your own in this, you are not. Regaurdless of whethere its family, friends, the father, or some stranger that wants to help out, There is ALWAYS someone there for you and that baby. Take care of yourself, and i hope everything turns out for the best. :D
2007-03-20 19:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by PrettyOnTheInside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. Research your options. Try to focus on the supportive people in your life. Communicate your feelings. Schedule your first prenatal appointment. Begin taking prenatal vitamins, if you haven't already.
Assuming that you're young (in your teens) and that you just broke the news to your family, I would suggest that you give your family some more time to let the new information sink in. This is a huge thing, especially if you're still living at home and attending junior or high school.
I hope that things turn around for you.
2007-03-20 19:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sylves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not telling you what to do because it is 100% your decision but please do not have a abortion. This baby did not ask to come into the world. I first got pregnant at the age of 16 and my family eventually came around and supported me 100%. I sadly misscaried but now at the age of 19 I have a 5 month old baby boy and trust me no matter the age and no matter the position your in after you have that baby you will be so happy its the best feeling ever. If you think you can not take care of this child maybe a friend or relative you trust can adopt. But whatever you do please dont have a abortion. Its normal for families to seem like they are not there for you but they will come around and if you have good friends you always have them to turn to. :) good luck hunn.
2007-03-20 19:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by father on his own 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what type of support you are talking about. If you are referring to emotional support, then look to your baby's father's family, and your friends, and the percentage of your family that does support you. They should know better anyway, because in a time like this you need positive feedback, not negative feedback, so screw them. If you are referring to financial support, you can always go check out the programs that they have in your area where the government can help you out, such as food stamps, and a medical card..etc. Good luck, and best wishes!!
2007-03-20 19:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Me_Myself_&_I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you don't think that you have any support. How about your Boyfriend? How about your friends. Even if you have no support you can give this baby a life. Either through parenting or adoption. You made a choice to have sex, which can lead to pregnancy= abortion not only takes the life of your child- it is dangerous for you. It can cause many physical risks- excessive bleeding- miscarriages later, unable to become pregnant later- torn/perforated uterus. Also emotional risks can last a lifetime. Grief, guilt shame, anniversary remembrances, If you want to talk more please email me, I would love to help you.
2007-03-20 19:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was pregnant 2 1/2 years ago with no family around me i had one better best friend that saw there thourgh everything i did not need my famliy my girlfriend is like a sister even better she would not steal my man when my baby passed away she was there and has been and will always be the best i have and i love her your friends can be your family handed picked familys are the best
2007-03-21 11:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by aangelsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're looking for outside support a yahoo group is great, there might even be a group tat meets locally though most groups are only online with people from all over the country. you can just do a search for the type of group you'd like.
2007-03-20 19:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lindy O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live your life is what you can do. It's not theirs. They can have the opinion to approve or dissaprove but don't have the authority (if you're an adult). Tell them it's fine if they don't approve, that their opinion, but it's your life and you're going to live it, they're either on board or not and if they're going to be a negative entity and influence tell them to take it somewhere else. Sometimes you gotta tell family what your boundaries are and what the deal really is becuase sometimes they're the first to walk all over your face. Don't let their behavior be a reflection on who you are and how you think of yourself. Raise the baby, be a good mom and guide him/her to make good decision and never say "becuase I said so!!!" lol
2007-03-20 19:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't really call it a family if they won't support you. That's crazy.
I suggest keeping it or giving it up for adoption. Maybe some friends could help you? Hope everything turns out good for you.
2007-03-20 19:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy To My Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋