My gf hits me all the time but i still love her and dont want to lose her what should i do?
2007-03-20 11:28:08 · 8 answers · asked by doubledz2588 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You need to leave her and tell her that if she can get her act together you'll come back. Unfortunately, I think history has proven that it's highly unlikely that she will change her ways unless you make a big change to the situation - she needs to know that its a big deal and that it isn't okay. Hope everything works out :\
2007-03-20 11:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jeffrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is beating on you, something needs to change. Obviously, she doesn't really love you. You may love her, and it probably hurts a lot to think about it, but you should leave her.
If someone in a relationship isn't treating you right, you shouldn't let them walk all over you for ages. Suggest to her that she get some professional help. Slapping people around isn't normal social behavior, and should never be tolerated. Leaving your girlfriend might make her snap out of it and realize that she's been doing something wrong.
No one is worth so little that someone else should be allowed to hit them. Realize your self importance and take the best steps for yourself.
2007-03-20 11:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Bishop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your accepting a person in your life who hits you, you need some help.
Get into a support group or counseling and find out why you would even be willing to tollerate that type of abuse.
If you love yourself enough you would not tollerate the abuse, no matter how much you love her.
2007-03-20 11:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by universatile love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of advice columnist Dan Savage, "DTMFA". Meaning dump the mother f***r already. Abuse is not love. Be proud of yourself, get some help, and get out while you still can.
2007-03-20 11:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by juniorblue2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HER! You love her.....but do you love yourself? If so, u need to walk away from this situation. She obviously has no respect or consideration for you and your well-being. You deserve way more than that. If this is behavior that you have told her to stop & she refuses....she doesn't care honey. Leave. NOW.
2007-03-20 11:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her! Explain to her how much it's affecting you and she needs to change, if she won't leave her. It's not worth the abuse.
2007-03-20 11:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are no ones doormat. She needs help. The only way you can help her is to help yourself first.
2007-03-20 11:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the nasty *****.or next time she slaps you you should slap her. or just go and get wasted to piss her off
2007-03-20 11:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋