but i kinda get abit turned on too. :(
2007-03-20 11:17:19 · 11 answers · asked by soulessdead 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
oh i would never lay a hand on a woman myself
2007-03-20 11:22:04 · update #1
yeah yeah.in your dreams.
2007-03-20 11:24:44 · update #2
rapist...
2007-03-20 11:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by eveningdin 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
You would probably enjoy a touch of S&M role playing, as long as it's safe. Seeing domestice violence can trigger feelings of power or of submission, depending on which view you take. Both of those feelings are highly relevant in sex, whether you are role playing or not. Don't worry, you're not a pervert or a weirdo, just normal. Society wants you to feel like there is something wrong with it because although sex and violence are both rampant and important in nature, society teaches that we are to be ashamed of these things, but it's simply not true. Take a look at some animals, mainly carnivores, and you will see that the male usually bites or beats the female during the act. You are just feeling natural instinct! Your body reacts to your desire, even though your mind knows the abuse is wrong. Domestic Violence is indeed wrong, but there is definently nothing wrong with you!
2007-03-20 12:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by margarita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're turned on by how wrong it is? I don't know... I hate cheating so much. I don't even like watching a movie and seeing a spouse cheat, or even hearing jokes about cheating. I would never cheat, and I would be SO angry if my girlfriend ever had sex with someone other than me, but for some reason, thinking about it happening sometimes turns me on.... I don't understand it myself. It's weird, I get turned on AND angry, at the same time!
Maybe the reason you are turned on by it, is the power position? Why don't you try some kinky sex with your partner? Some dominatrix stuff...
2007-03-20 11:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a victim of domestic violence, and frankly, I never got turned on by it.
2007-03-20 12:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by ragincajun1957 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're talking about an aggressive girl then it's not a bad thing if a girl's a little aggressive but if you're talking about you being aggressive or hitting somebody you might just have a different personality in you also but truthfully some girls like aggressive guys just not in a domestic violent way.
2007-03-20 11:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by ashmat12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's playing where no one gets hurt & then there's domestic violence. Playing is safe.
2007-03-20 11:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because you seen what has been played on tv and seen what can happen and to you it wrong. which you right any violence is wrong and nothing wrong with you.
2007-03-20 11:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
every person have this in her/he, its nothing special about you,
everone have a potential be a sadist.
the difference is if you admit it and if you act it out.
your choice.
2007-03-20 12:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by janne5011 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should hire a violent domestic
2007-03-20 11:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go get a punching bag.... itll make you feel better, and you will be releasing all anger on it, and wont feel turned on as much by it towards other people.
2007-03-20 11:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by Chuyito 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you are repeating the pattern you learned from your parents.
2007-03-20 11:21:13 · answer #11 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋