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I have had this happen to me a million times. I'll be talking to this woman and she feels the need to adjust her top, generally by moving a light sweater or accessory around in the middle of talking - usually something covering their breasts, which notably are typically already well covered by a shirt. I should note that this makes me self-conscious because my eyes out of habit follow whatever action is taking place in front of me and I feel like a perve for even looking when they prompted me to look in the first place. Why do women do this in the middle of conversation? I don't adjust my pants in the middle of conversation - that would be just plain awkward! So generally, and because I try to put women at ease with my talk and demeanor, I find it weird that this is something that they do which does not put me at ease. So is this adjustment some kind of sign of approval or sign of self-conscienceness or what? And what if anything should I do about it?

2007-03-20 10:59:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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I, out of habit, adjust my shirt because I want to make sure nothing is being revealed. I think it's just a habit and nothing more. Oh by the way, I have had conversations with men where they adjust their, ahem, and when confronted, they say the boys weren't happy. Maybe the girls weren't happy? :)

2007-03-20 11:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by treasureyourself 4 · 0 0

I am guilty of this action. I adjust my self because I can fell the Cami falling down and I figure that it will not make a big difference in the conversation. I also adjust because I do not want the guy to be staring at my chest the entire conversation, which has happen millions of time before. Because of these two reasons, it has become a force of habit. Sorry that this gesture makes you fell horribly awkward

2007-03-20 11:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by danicolegirl 5 · 0 0

because, you don't want your shirt to fall down and you're not aware of it

2007-03-20 11:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by ^_^ ♥ §atsuki_☼ushiza ♥ ^_^ 5 · 0 0

ill fitting bras

2007-03-20 11:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because you are staring at her boobs.

2007-03-20 11:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by webned 6 · 0 0

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