Me and my current best friend are starting to drift off and I don't want this friendship to fail like some many others before this one.
She is over-sensitive sometimes and I just don't know how to cope with her. She gets mad over things that she shouldn't be mad at. But I think her and I have a close bond and I don't want it to end becaue I need a best friend in my life.
2007-03-20 10:52:22 · 6 answers · asked by JustMe♥. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't make your friend be your best friend, it has to come natural. Friends are with you through thick and thin no matter what happens. Friends get mad at you, you can't get around that --- its when they get over and not keep dwelling on it is when they are truly your friend. Friends forgive and forget --- that's just what friends do. Friends drift off and on sometimes too. My best friend (since the 3rd grade) and I don't talk all that much anymore (maybe about 2 or 3 times a month) but I know she is still my best friend and when I need to talk, cry, or laugh to her I know she is still there. Friendships could last a lifetime or for a short time. Sometimes you just have to work on friendships to make them work, just like relationships.
Hope this eases your worries.
2007-03-20 11:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lost in a Relationship 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend just like that. Shes very sensitive,and also gets mad over things she shouldn't be mad at. But at times I really feel like were close, and other days I feel like maybe shes not a real friend. I feel like shes changed, and is not who she use to be.
So far we have been friends for 3 years now, and our friendship lasted becuase of our communication. In the 4th grade we always stuck by each others side, and supported each other in everything. We had out little arguments, but talks to each other about them, and made things better. She may hate some things about me, and I may dislike certain things about her, but we do have a good bond. But as a friend I have to teach her how to not be mad over silly things,and to just grow up. I don't tell that to her agressivly, or meanfully or anything I tell her in a understandable way. Thats part of communication. You have to be able to talk with each other, and being able to handle big or small situations.
You shouldn't feel like you need a best friend. You sound kind of deprate. U should want her to be your friend, becuase she has qualities a friend should have. Don't make her be a good friend, she has to play that role on her own. if you feel as if your a good honest, respectful thoughtful, caring friend, and she's not, or not being a good friend to you, then thats not youe best friend. Thats part of friendship. I know the beauty in friendship, becuause I have very polite funny friends, that has been there for me all the time, and always was mature and real about things.
I honesty have a friend named Tiffany, the one I mentioned in the first paragraph, that I can't cope with either. Thats why I think twice about her. I'm not sure if she's my best friend. I don't see too many qualities of a friend she suppose to have.
I'm not saying don't be her friend, i'll let you decide that, but play your role, and be a good friens to her, and help her realize its immature to get mad over silly simple stuff. GOoD LuCk WiTh ThAT. Adios Amiga!!!
2007-03-20 18:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A true best friend will always be there. You two may have huge arguments but you will pass through this to. Me and my best friend have been friends for 23 years. There are times we dont talk for months but then it is like we have talked last week. There was one time we had a fight over a guy. Normal teenager stuff. But we worked through it and passed on. We hang out at least once a year and hash things like time stood still. You and your friend will be fine. No matter how different you are now. Be patient and things will be fine.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 18:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by hascht2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't really prevent a friendship from ending if the two of you are growing apart, it happens to everyone, people change. You just have to grin and bear it. It works out for the best in the end, because if you two are starting to change, you'll just end up ending your relationship in a fight, so you're better off just ending it this way.
2007-03-20 17:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you don't know need nobody but you and maybe you should find new friend.
2007-03-20 18:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by va757 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drug her
2007-03-20 17:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋