My boyfriend is such a loving and caring person. But sometimes he tends to forget about my feelings and says things to hurt me. But aferwards he always tells me hes sorry and is so sweet torwards me. He's a very jealous person and little things we talk about can start a fight so quick. I'm a very stubborn person and so is he and neither one of us ever wanna admit to being wrong. I tend to get upset over small things and lose my temper. I love him and want this to work out sooo bad. What can i do to make this work? Please help.
2007-03-20 10:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by I_love_him 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your boyfriend sounds like he is jealous because he has insecurity issues. He should not take out his insecurities on you, you two need to have an honest talk on why he feels it is appropriate to act this way, and that it is hurtful towards yourself. If he doesn't think he needs to try and work on that about himself, then he really isn't worth keeping. Someone who loves you should not be the person who hurts and puts you down. They should make you feel wonderful and raise you up. They are supposed to be someone you can come to for comfort and for trust.
2007-03-20 10:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop fighting so much. Sometimes believe it or not its better to keep your mouth shut. Talking it out is not always the solution, especially if these talking it out sessions always lead to fighting. I have found that this is the rule about dating... either you can live with what he's doing OR you could break up with him for what he's doing. So if its petty stuff, let it go. If you absolutely cannot deal with the jealousy or what ever then let him go. If you argue and fight with him constantly it won't work out, he'll get tired of it and leave. It isn't working if you are fighting all the time.
2007-03-20 11:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both need to grow up. Does he have a reason to be jealous? If you want it to work you both have to give 100% A relationship is 50/50 .
2007-03-20 10:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both need to be more mature and admit when your wrong, do nice things for him and he'll give in return..
2007-03-23 15:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Parachutes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and be a woman! deal with it, you're going to fight. that's just the way it is. nothing you can do about it. just love, fight, make up, and get over it!
2007-03-20 10:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by chelsea.lane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to them about your problems
2007-03-20 10:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by booyah™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey. talk with him. tell him how you feel. and don't do things to aggravate him. if its meant to be it will all workout
2007-03-20 10:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Tay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please get a new job
working with him will be horrible for you if you two ever fight or even ifyour break up.
2007-03-20 10:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋