2007-03-20 10:33:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you partner loves you they should make love to you. Both men and women need to be pleased. If you arent pleasing her ask her what would please her. The #1 rule I abide by is "Whatever you arent willing to do for your partner someone else will" and dont forget that rule goes both ways. So both of you need to keep that communication before the other partner goes searching for pleasure from someone else. too many marriages fail because one or the other person is not sexually pleased.
2007-03-20 10:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Nesta Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you doing all you can to please her in bed? Ask her what you can do to pleasure her more. Be patient and gentle with her, then if she wants you to be less gentle or apply more pressure, go faster, etc., she should tell you. If she won't even begin to have sex with you then ask her to go to marriage counseling, or see a doctor to find out why she has a low sex drive. Are you being romantic as well as sexual? Maybe she needs to hear and feel how much you love her more often!
2007-03-20 17:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever to agree to have sex a set number of times! It is a mood thing not a schedule thing!
2007-03-20 17:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by MMM 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stress could be a factor. People with high stress levels generally have lower sex drives.
2007-03-20 17:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Been here before 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are may some other factors involved. Have you asked her? Is it wham bang thank you ma'am. Did you set up your intended encounter? Are you taking her for granted? Do you try to seduce her. A "lets do it," usually don't work unless you live with a nymph.
2007-03-20 17:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Love and sex aren't exclusive. She could love you and just not have a high sex drive.
2007-03-20 17:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋