me and this guy...we have been best friends for 3 years now and i knew that he is talking to one of my mere friends alot these days and they are becoming close,i am feeling very bad and i dun really know why....am afraid am falling in luv with a frnd and i really dun wanna lose him
2007-03-20 10:24:44 · 5 answers · asked by meeshaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you sure you are falling in love or are you just feeling jealousy because you are finding that he is spending more time with your friend than with you. Don't confuse love with jealousy, if you are really a friend then you should be happy. Just step back and analyze the situation first.
2007-03-20 10:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe your best friend is just friends with you friends and just are very cool with each other. They probably have alot in common or something. I don't think hes just not going to like you, or spend time with you like he did. Forget about the time he spends with your few friends, and juat relax. You shouldn't feel bad at all. Your best friend is probably always going to be yourfriend, so you shouldn't feel jealous. Cuz u know hes a good person, and wont leave u alone.
U may be jealous cuz u want more attention from your best friend like he has before, and not liking the fact that he hangs out with other people. I think your not in love with this person, and I think that if you spend too much time worrying about crazy things like that it may ruin your friendship. U don't wanna do that. Be happy and hang out gracefully with your friends and your best friend.
2007-03-20 17:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. same thing happpend to me. i have this friend who i absolutely luv. we're fab friends. But my friend and my other friend have been hanging out alot. I get really pissed but i stilll get though it. I have a bad day but it all works out.
Options:
1. U cld tell ur mere friend that u like him. she might back off.
2. u cld tell the guy u like him.
3.U cld get into a fight with u r mere friend and stop hanging out with her. If this guy really likes u he'll stop hanging out with her.
4. U cld also let go of this guy. maybe he's not the right one.
5. U cld get close to another guy. maybe he'll realize that ur the 1 he wants.
I hope it works out 4 u. U sound pretty sweet.
2007-03-20 17:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Desiness-on- Ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fidn yourself a bf and remain best friends with your friend and dont be jealous over him finding someone, be supportive or it could ruin your friendship
2007-03-20 17:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might like him and then again you could be havign a makor breakdown kick him to the curb you slu*!
2007-03-20 17:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by BLAH BLAH BLAH! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋