Ok I have been stressing over how to talk to my husband about our relationship, because I get emotional, and then he gets upset. So anyway, I have been having a huge problem with him watching porn and hiding it from me, so I wrote him a letter. Before I give it to him, I wanted some stranger's advice on how it sounds if there's anything I should add or take out.
Here's the letter:
Ok, here goes nothing… Please read this entire letter. I am terrified to talk to you. I’m afraid you are going to leave me, I’m afraid you don’t love me. We never really talked about it after you told me you didn’t a couple summers ago, and it has never left my mind. I love you so much and I don’t want to lose you. I don’t want to hurt you either, but we have to talk about some things. You can be so sweet sometimes, and you are an awesome dad for {our son}. But there’s one thing you do I can not live with. I hate you watching porn. It makes me feel like you are cheating on me.
2007-03-20 10:16:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anna__Banana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
. I know you do because it’s still in your media player. I found out by opening your media player a couple weeks ago, cause you were logged on and I wasn’t and I didn’t want to wait for my stuff to all load, and there it was. After I found it I decided to check and it seems like it’s always there. Nearly every time I go somewhere, you watch porn. I know I used to do it too, but I haven’t for a long time because I know how it made me feel, and I only want to be aroused by you. You are my husband, and I only want you to make feel that way, and I want to be the only one who makes you feel that way. I want you to stop watching it, for me. It seems like you never want to touch me anymore, and the only reason I can think of is you like the porn better than me. That brings me to the next thing I want to talk about. You say you love me, but I don’t ever see you show it, except for rare occasion we have sex.
2007-03-20 10:17:16 · update #1
And recently, it’s been hard for me to enjoy sex, because all I can think about is if you are thinking about me or the porn. I would love for you to hug me or hold my hand. I know I have my faults, and I am far from perfect. And if there’s something you want me to change, I will try my best to change it. But I can’t keep living like this, and it has to stop. I’m sorry if this hurts you, but I had to tell you how I feel. I want to talk to you, but if I try to say all this to you I know I would cry, and I know you hate it when I cry. I love you.
Yours always,
2007-03-20 10:17:38 · update #2
guess nobody wants to answer, just give it to him and see how it goes...
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